WEDDING PARTY
Jennifer Dubanowich
Matron of Honor
Jennifer had no idea what she was signing up for when she told Ashley "sure, come check out a practice" in the fall of 2004, not long after these two became inseparable besties. This duo have embarked on countless adventures together, from road trips to 'Canada' (aka LaCrosse), to late-night Taco Bell runs and joyfully filling carts at Walmart with unnecessary but "needed" items. Jen's unique talent lies in her ability to make Ashley laugh, even during the toughest times. Jennifer's unwavering support during both difficult times and joyous celebrations has been nothing short of remarkable. Though they may not have been the best roommates (let's face it, we've all had our moments!), their friendship has always remained steadfast and close. When Ashley introduced Tom to Jennifer she became the biggest cheerleader for the duo and Tom was given the nickname "MySpace". Jen - I always wanted a sister, and when god made you my bestie, he granted that wish. There are no words for how much I love our friendship and how much I appreciate you and all that you do. Thanks for being the blondie to my brownie.
Alex Stukey
Best Man
They say “you only make a once in a life time friend once in a life time” and this friendship is it. Alex has been Tom’s best friend since 1st grade when the alphabet stuck them together, and from that day it has been an amazing friendship. Whether they are 1500 miles away or next to each other the friendship never changes. Over the years the two have bonded over a deep love of A Night at the Roxbury, video games, Egyptian pottery projects, the White Sox, Michigan football, the Red Wings and the Bears. They have been there for each step of the others lives and cannot wait to see what their friendship future holds.
Katie Dixon
Bridesmaid
Katie and Ashley became fast friends when Katie moved to Milton during middle school. No matter what the occasion is (driving hours to see friends in MN and blowing a tire, traveling to other countries, Sunday Funday meat raffles, playing sorry in the driveway, long road trips or Katie losing at the dot game) there are always bound to be a numerous amount of laughs, jokes, and good times. Forever grateful for the overall wearing Idaho girl who moved to Milton and knew how to play the dot game💙
Ryan Seeling
Groomsman
Tom & Ryan became buddies in 1997 when the two were teammates in baseball. Years later, they became the best of friends. Ryan is a true voice of reason when needed and is never farther than a phone call away. Ryan is always down to talk about the White Sox, jam out to Thunderstruck, reminiscence by naming the Rockford TV channel numbers of the 90's or go on an adventure. Rumor has it Ryan is trying to get Tom’s uncle Duane to adopt him
Jennifer Anderson
Bridesmaid
Jenn and Ashley became friends from the start in elementary school and that friendship has spanned 25+ years and the memories are endless. Jenn was also the first of Ashley's friends to truly get to hang out with Tom. We hit up Rock County Brewing, cruised in the convertible, and then Tom learned about life on the farm (just the pigs and goats) and realized he is not meant for farm life. Jenn - I am so lucky to look back on our friendship and have nothing but good moments together. So thankful I have had you by my side on this life journey, I wouldn’t have been able to do it without you! <3
Dan Sheets-Poling
Groomsman
Not everyone is so lucky they get a college roommate they just click with from the start, but in this case Tom knew he lucked out in having Dan as a roomie! The duo bonded over Michgian Wolverine football, playing NCAA on the xbox, The Mighty Ducks and pop punk music. They say every group of friends needs a responsible friend and Dan excels in this role. He is the glue that holds the friend group together and frequently the person who deals with shenanigans like a seasoned pro.
Brandi Miatke
Bridesmaid
When Ashley & Brandi initially met in the 2nd Grade, they knew they would be fast friends. That friendship has lasted many years, ups, downs, and an incredible amount of miles. From passing notes (and notebooks) in the halls of middle school, to creating our own language, to drive-thrus ordering half chicken nuggets, to late night chats about nothing yet everything, there is no bounds to this forever friendship. Idaguy ludaguv youdagu Bdagee! 💜
Craig Dekarske
Groomsman
Tom and Craig became fast and great friends from Lakeland College through mutual friends their junior year. The two share a love of craft beer, pop punk music, Star Wars and college football. Craig is the ultimate handyman and has helped us turn our house in to a home with his Tim 'The Tool Man' Taylor likeness. Craig is the type of friend that everyone wishes they had and I am lucky to have him as one.
Kayla Schaapveld
Bridesmaid
Kayla and Ashley have had 25+ years of friendship which includes the best memories, tons of laughs, and some chaos. Between sleepovers, hot tub nights, scavenger hunt summers, adventures in Minneapolis, Nashville, Cancun and more there is truly never a dull moment. Even the times just sitting around Kayla's kitchen table doing nothing but chatting is something Ashley is so thankful for in their friendship. KayJ - I am so thankful that throughout the years, you have remained one of the best people I know. <3
Louis Colletti
Groomsman
Louis was the very first person Tom met at Lakeland orientation and the rest is history. These two instantly bonded over their home state of Illinois, The White Sox, Bears and a love of all things college football. Louis is the type of friend that makes you happy and feel blessed to have in your life. They might live several hours away from one another but without a doubt the friendship remains strong.
Briella & Brynlee
Flower Girl
Briella is Ashley’s goddaughter and has always been the brightest light in her world. Whether we are on FaceTime practicing spelling words, getting suckered into a treat, using AshBash magic or getting snuggles with a book, the memories are just building up! She’s the only reason Ash could stand to drive to Tomah weekend after weekend (sorry Jen & Justin - it wasn't you LOL)! From day 1 Tom knew, if he wanted Ashley’s heart, he had to win over Briella. It turns out, this was an easy task! She was one of the first people he asked if he could marry her AshBash and she kept the secret under lock and key! ——————————————————— Brynlee is the sweetest girl who has a laugh that can brighten anyone’s day. She is a creative, silly, smart girl who has Ash & Tom wrapped around her fingers (and she knows it!) Whether we are dancing to ‘The Booty Song’ or hearing one heck of a creative story, there is never a time where she does not have us smiling! Without a doubt she loves her AshBash and her TomTom!
Bryson
Ring Security
This little dude has given us the best laughs, one scary night and the sweetest moments. He captured Ashley's heart from day 1 but when Tom came into the picture they were immediate buds… always playing catch, running around, and battling on the Xbox! When we asked him to be in the wedding, he was so nervous, but the moment we told him he could be security.... he got excited!
Serena Salgado
Honor Attendant
Serena is Ashley’s cousin but truly the little sister Ash never got to have! Their love of all things Taylor Swift, drives from the train station in Kenosha, and watching Gossip Girl marathons over holidays were always some of their best moments! The distance from Vegas, Evanston, Boston and now NYC has never let their friendship skip a beat. Nena - I am so proud of the woman you have become and am so lucky to call you family and a friend. Love you! 💛
Brandon Hogan
Usher
Brandon and Tom grew up across the street from each other on Colchester where you could find them frequently play video games, legos, or outside playing baseball! The two were able to reconnect their friendship, which Tom is so thankful for. If you need them, you can likely find them putting their membership to good use at the Verdi club.
The Something Blue Crew
Tiffany - Stacy - Angie - Stephanie - Heather
Tiffany and Ashley met through Jen and Ashley became the "fourth sister". Whether they are playing rack-o and dominoes at the kitchen table, or out celebrating something fun, there are always endless good times. Tiffany's contagious laughter and positive attitude has always been something Ashley loves and is unbelievably thankful for. Stacy and Ashley became friends thanks to Subway visits to see Katie at work and RhythmNBooms. The two have had some fun adventures including fun travels, camping, meat raffles, and more. The way Stacy is unapologetically herself and speaks her mind is something Ashley truly admires. Angie and Ashley bonded through mutual friends but the friendship feels like they have known each other forever. Angie's kind heart, unwavering support of both Ash & Tom, ability to make anyone laugh and unbelievable organizational skills are just a things Ashley is thankful for in their friendship. When Ashley first met Steph, she knew this girl was a force to be reckon with. From cheerleading, to Hennessey with Harv, sleepovers at Ash/Jens apartments, their shared love of Uncle Jesse and the late night chats; Steph has always been there with support and being her true self which Ashley has admired from the start. The fates brought Heather and Ashley together when they both needed it the most! No matter what the two find themselves doing you know it will be a good time. The conversations and moments between the two are some of Ashley's favorite memories.
Justin Dubanowich
Officiant
When Ashley & Tom thought about the person they wanted to marry them, they wanted someone who knows the both of them well, and someone who has always been supportive of the duo. Justin immediately came to mind. Ashley has been lucky enough to have Justin as a pseudo big brother helping her negotiate cars sales, having random Karaoke nights, and putting up with her and Jen's antics (one word Justin - WAX). When Tom and Justin met, they bonded immediately over their love of Toby Keith, Miller Lite, bonfires, late night golf cart rides, baseball and all things sports. The two are so thankful Justin agreed to officiate and make this the real deal!