Mother of the Bride
This is my mom. I cannot wait for you to meet her. She is my cheerleader in every room, a wine connoisseur (yes, this is where I get it from), my comfort place when I have nowhere to go, my inspiration as a woman. She's got a soft heart and a savage mouth, she's like a hallmark card written by Eminem. She taught me how to look someone in the eye, and stand ten toes down on my convictions. She taught me how to be gentle with myself and others when the world got too loud and cruel. There's no adequate words to express how grateful I am to her and my Dad for what they have done, and continue to do. I have watched her handle grief, loss, triumph, love, and all that life can throw at her, with a steel backbone and a smile. She'll never admit that, but I will. Being a woman can be a difficult game, but she threw the controller out the window a long time ago and decided she would be a badass without cheat codes or learning which buttons to press or avoid. She taught her daughter, and the women around her, to do the same. What a mesmerizing, strong, fiery woman she is. It is a pleasure to have her in my life, my corner, and by my side on this special day. I love you! -Jo
Mother of the Groom
Shes the best mom a boy could ask for, plain and simple. She always made time for me even when she had put in hours on a busy ambulance all day. Through the ups and downs of life, she always put me first and made sure I was taken care of, and has made sure to still give me some amazing opportunities in life. You made me who I am today, and I'm proud that you're my mom. There's not many people I can discuss normal family stuff with AND talk about Benzodiazapine doses and RSI with. Even when you couldn't be there for sports or events because you were making sure I had food on the table and the latest Call of Duty, you always made sure to cheer me on and motivate me. And after seeing some of the crazy things that you saw in your profession, you still made sure to to be overbearing or a helicopter parent even though that's so tough with all the bad parents you've seen. You're the best mom I could ask for. Thank you Mom. -Aidan
Father of the Bride
Dad. Most people think this role is simply acquired, but in my opinion, it is earned. Even better, my dad chose it. My dad earned it. He taught me to move in productive silence, push myself until my body and mind crumbled with exertion, and be a leader when needed. Learning those skills have truly made my life better. I still remember him picking me up from elementary school with Metallica blaring through the speakers. He was making sure I knew how to step on necks with style y'all. When I was little, I dreamed of having a dad. I dreamed of doing a lot of things with a dad of my own. Though I did not get to start with one, I surely lucked out. Sneaking whiskey into our to-go cups, learning how to drive in your truck (sorry about that one time), camping out on the stairs because we believed in NFL juju, him screaming the loudest on my first home-run, going camping and watching meteor showers, learning how to fish...etc. All of my core memories, he's in them. I have a man who I look up to, who I trust, who's MY dad, to walk me down the aisle. What an incredible, patient, and loving man he is. What a privilege it is to be his daughter. I love you! -Jo
Officiant
My brother. The tallest kid in the room with the best hair. Wyatt definitely commands the room when he walks in, and there is no one in this world quite like him. I would not be the woman I am today without him, and I am so grateful to be his sister, and his friend. I think he is the only person besides Aidan who can make me laugh, cry, and then be exasperated with frustration in the same conversation. But, that's the thing, he draws out your passion. There have been plenty of times in life where I didn't want to keep going, and this sentimental giraffe just kept cheering me on, or not giving me the option to fail. From day one, we have been looking out for each other. There never has been a time where we haven't shed tears, blood, or sweat to support, protect, or motivate each other. You will never feel alone wherever this man is, though you will be subject to many tequila adventures, belly laughs, and travel plans. I cannot wait for you to meet Wyatt, he is a person to be cherished. Aidan and I are so grateful he graciously accepted our request to be our officiant. I was there to guide his first steps on this Earth, and it only seems fitting that he officiates the new chapter of mine. Salud y amor mi hermano- Jo
Flower Girl
This little girl is the sweetest ray of sunshine you will ever lays eyes on. She is kind, spunky like her mother, and has the best sense of humor like her dad. We have been watching her grow up, and phew does time fly by. It is such a pleasure to be a part of her life, and we are so excited she agreed to a part of our special day!
Matron of Honor
Oh how I love this girl. We have experienced so much in life together, and I have watched Jessyca grow and bloom in countless ways. She and I share a friendship that has tested a lot of time and ups & downs. I couldn't imagine my wedding day without her. From getting her kicked out of a bar to her now having a wonderful little family, I have witnessed all the love and effort this woman pours into her relationships. If you ever need to laugh, or have a down to Earth conversation that will leave you feeling whole, this is your lady. I cannot wait to talk about this day in the years to come in a garage somewhere with our kids running around. I love you Jess! - Jo
Best Man
This is my brother, and while hes not blood related he might as well be. He has been by my side for 17 years and counting, and it all started from one conversation in the line for Oklahoma Drills in 4th grade. There has been YEARS where we have seen each other every day, yet i think there's like 10 pictures of us together in total. I talk to him still every day. I love this guy. He is only a call away if I ever need him. Period. From countless adventures across this state, questionable vehicle projects, family functions, missons to rescue him from the snowy hellhole that is Hastings Nebraska, Matt is the man behind it all. Ive done some pretty cool stuff, but some of my all time favorite memories still are us playing Burnout on PlayStation 2 and RS6 in his parents basement. I'm so grateful to have him by my side for this next chapter of my life.
Matron of Honor
Listen, this woman has been with me since day one. She tried to deny Chik-Fil-A once okay, and Momma Herren wasn't having it aaannndddd here we are. Some of my best core memories have her embedded into them, and I cannot fathom having this day without her. My sparkly girl, she is just one of a kind. The ultimate planner, line dancer, and queen of fast cars. I can't wait for you all to meet her. I'm trying not to cry typing this but she really came into my life and turned it upside down for the better. She included me, and thought of me when others let me fade into the background. That's the type of woman she is. I became "jojo" and since then I felt like I had the confidence to do more. Watching her navigate life with a steel backbone and glitter in her soul inspires me. I love you My My- Jo
Groomsman
We curse at each other, call each other names and hit each other at work. yet somehow he is still one of may favorite people to work with and makes my job fun. and since my job requires me to live with this dude for 3 out of 7 days of the week, I'm so grateful that he does even when its a bad shift somehow it ends up being a good time. and outside of work, one of my favorite people hit the ski slopes, or play video-games with. Even though you'd think we hate each other by how we work together if you saw it, I talk to this dude every day. Thanks for being there for 8 years bud. Thankfully hes got too short of an attention span to read all the mushy stuff in here. -Aidan
Bridesmaid
Oooooooo girl Jess is the sweetest lady I know. Seriously I'm not sure how she doesn't sprout a set of fairy wings and glide like Glinda everywhere. I met Jess through Aidan and I could not be more grateful for a girlfriend in this group of rowdy men we all love. Jess is the type of woman to strike up a conversation and talk to you just because. Goodness she has more kindness and light in her pinky than most folks acquire after church on Sundays. Her laugh is infectious, and I cannot wait for you all to meet this sweet lady!- Jo
Groomsman
From 4th grade to now, this guy has always been family. From playing football and going to school, to being roommates and hanging out while trying to figure life out, its been a blast and will continue to be. Even when we're busy, when we meet back up for golf or video games its like nothing has changed, and I wouldn't want it any other way. I still laugh when I remember playing video games on 2 separate TVs in the shop, using a cooler full of Twisted Teas and Angry Orchard as a coffee table. And lets not forget when I hot-wired your Lincoln with a screwdriver because we were too cheap to fix it the right way. glad I brought that Star Wars pen to Mrs Chapel's class homie, it changed my life. Thanks for being there buddy. -Aidan
Bridesmaid
Sweet Jesus Lacey is the bees knees. She is the best person I know who actually soaks up life and follows through. From park ranger, to avid travel enthusiast, and snack connoisseur, she knows all things. Lacey pays attention too, I could mention something one week and the next she has planned a whole day dedicated to that specifically mentioned "something" . I am so blessed to know her, what a wonderful human. I am so grateful to have her by side on such a special day. Lacey is one-of-a-kind, and I look forward to learning, laughing, traveling, and exploring with her in the years to come, wherever they may take us! Can't wait for you all to meet her!- Jo
Groomsman
Another one of my work friends who bullies me all the time, but I wouldn't have it any other way. From the fire academy we both were in to now, hes always had my back and been there, being honest with me and making the day fun and interesting. Even after becoming one of my bosses he never changed and its awesome. Hes still the same guy that with go with me to the mountain, party and drink some Bloody Marys and bomb down a mountain with me. whether its videogames, snowboarding, going out to a bar or working, Comers always gonna make it a good time. Thanks for being there buddy, and keeping whatever were doing interesting. -Aidan
Bridesmaid
My spicy Italian meatball. Her feet hit the ground in the morning and the devil himself sighs in defeat. I had her proofread my papers in high school, and she surely learned how blonde I was, but she didn't hold that against me and we have been friends through thick and thin ever since. She decided to go be a kick ass nurse and doesn't live so close anymore but you wouldn't know outright. Her and I can pick up wherever we left off and the city will need a cautionary warning for laughter decibels. A beautiful and spicy soul with a heart of gold.- Jo
Groomsman
Sean, the optimist of the group. I can never talk shit to Sean, hes just too positive of a guy. It could be the worst shift, or day in general every but if Sean is there, somehow well all end it joking and laughing. He is also the KING of life's side quests. Hes like the closest thing to a real life Forrest Gump when it comes to experiences. Like seriously, Sean if you're reading this HOW? you've fit like 70 years of life experiences into 35. Its incredible. Ask him about anything in history and hell have the answer. Ask him about the samurai armor in his living room and hell have a story. Hes just awesome and such a good friend. Thanks for keeping me sane at work Sean, and for being so fun to be around outside of work. -Aidan