FAQs
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Are children invited to the wedding and reception?
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After a ton of thought and consideration we have decided to have an adult only ceremony and reception. There will be some Tweens + Plum of course, but we have kept it to strictly family. While we understand this can be a planning and attendance issue we are looking forward to spending the night celebrating with you all worry free! So grab a sitter and get on the dance floor!
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Is there a dress code?
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Yes! The dress code for our evening wedding is formal attire (Tuxedos/ Black Suit and Tie for men + Long Gown or Formal Cocktail Dress for women) in any color, including black. Great question and THANK YOU for asking! We are looking forward to your stylish representations.
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What’s the wedding hashtag?
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Yes! #BeautyandtheBeetle92323 for all you photo snapping, social media socialites! Thank you in advance for all the wonderful, spontaneous moments captured!
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Am I allowed to take pictures during the ceremony?
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No. Please refrain. Social media has taken over the world and Tess is a huge advocate of being present in the moment! The Bride & Groom would greatly appreciate their wedding photos capturing your smiling faces not your cellphones in their wedding shots! There will be plenty of moments to capture during cocktail hour and reception.
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Is the bar hosted or no-host?
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Ahhhhh…. we would be curious of this ourselves. No one wants to be asking the bartenders if they take Venmo! If you adhere to the dress code, the bar is open all night for you 😉! The bar will be hosted. So please plan your driving arrangements accordingly.
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Will transportation be provided from other hotels or Air BnB/VRBO etc to the venue?
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With the ubiquity of ride share platforms such as Uber/Lyft we will not be providing transportation to and from the wedding venue. This enables guests to come and go at a time they feel comfortable with before and after the ceremony.
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Can I bring a date?
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But what if you find one at the wedding? We have so many people we love and want to celebrate with so we will only be able to accommodate those listed on your invitation.
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Food allergies
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Please indicate any food allergies on the back of your menu preference on the RSVP card. We will inform the chefs and do our best to accommodate.