Everything will take place at The Elms Hotel & Spa in Excelsior Springs, MO. You can find more details about the hotel on the "Hotel & Travel" tab and more details about our weekend schedule under the "Schedule" tab.
The ceremony will start promptly at 5:30PM, please plan to arrive 15-30 mins beforehand.
While we adore your little ones, our wedding will be an adults-only celebration. Think of it as a built-in date night: eat, drink, and dance the night away kid-free!
Yes! Please use the link under "Hotel & Travel" to book your room at The Elms with a discounted rate.
Yes, our wedding will be black tie optional. For men, that means a dark suit and tie, with tuxedos welcome but not required. For women, floor-length gowns or elegant cocktail dresses (mid-calf or longer) are perfect. Think timeless, refined, and polished.
Your presence means the most to us! But if you’d like to give a gift, you’ll find our registry under the “Registry” tab — with options to contribute to our honeymoon or a few household items as we start this next chapter.
For those staying at The Elms, everything will be onsite and walkable. For those staying elsewhere, please note we will not be providing transportation, so please plan accordingly. Free self parking is available at The Elms for those driving or renting a car. Ubers/Lyfts/Taxis are readily available in downtown Kansas City and at the airport, however you may need to plan for a few extra minutes of wait time if getting one outside of downtown.
Please reach out to either Ryan or Helen directly. Alternatively, you can email us at houseray26@gmail.com