Holly liked Toby’s photo of him posing in front of a stegosaurus at the Chicago Field Museum and sent him a message. Their first date lasted 6 hours — mediocre food, excellent company.

Toby asked Holly to marry him over cups of coffee on their first morning in Edinburgh, Scotland. Of course, Holly said yes -- she'd picked out the ring with Toby two months after they met.

Drink coffee, collect matching handmade coffee mugs, read books, play cribbage and other games, go to concerts with seating and climate control, go to Toby's ceramics studio, go on walks, watch baseball games, build crafts and Legos, put puzzles together.