FAQs
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What do I wear?
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Rehearsal dinner - casual, comfortable, warm. Seating will be outside in a heated tent in fall. We won't mind Flannels and Jeans. Ceremony & Reception - wedding attire, not black tie. Look sharp but stay comfortable, especially your dancing shoes! Please plan to bring a jacket if forecast is cold. The ceremony is short but will be outside underneath a tent. Sunday Gathering - Buffalo Bills Gear. Or whatever you are most comfortable in! This is a very casual event.
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Where is the rehearsal dinner? Sunday Gathering?
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Both are going to be hosted at an Air BNB we rented up in Lansing - 197 Lansing Station Road, Lansing, NY 13882. Car pool if you can.
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Will I know anyone?
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Maybe, maybe not. We are hoping to have our worlds collide and everyone can make new friends or maybe see old ones! You are all so special to us and there's a reason we like you. Trust us, cool people will be there.
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What time should I arrive to the Ceremony?
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The ceremony will begin at 4pm so please plan to arrive by 3:45pm to ensure you are seated and ready for the big show!
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I don't have a lot of extra time. What's one thing I should in Ithaca?
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See a gorge and waterfall. Buttermilk Falls is close to our venue, Ithaca Falls is in downtown Ithaca and easy to get to. Taughannock is out of town but worth the drive - tallest waterfall east of the Mississippi River! If you're driving up to Rehearsal dinner or Sunday gathering - Myers Park is a great stop to see Cayuga Lake. Ludlowville Falls (Salmon Creek Falls) is a bit of a steep hike but you can also see it from the playground. It's beautiful.
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Will this be a dry wedding?
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No. Although Heidi no longer drinks, there will be a bar available at the wedding. We have funded the bar a certain amount of money and then it will turn to a cash bar, so please be prepared.
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I know Rob. Will there be cool tricks?
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Yes, of course.
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Heidi, will your dad be there?
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No. Heidi's dad has Alzheimer's (14 years) and at this stage of his journey, it is best for him to stay comfortable and be cared for. He will be with us in spirit and in our hearts. Heidi's brothers and Mom will be walking with her down the aisle.
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Why is there nothing on the registry?
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We joined our lives at a time where we already have all the "things" we need. We are really looking forward to experiences! We have a honeymoon fund set up that will allow us to take our time and plan a great adventure, if you would like to contribute. However, we don't expect anything- your presence just coming to see us is amazing.