FAQs
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Where are you registered?
Answer
Ben & I have lived together for quite some time. We have accumulated all we need to fill our home with items and necessities. If you wish to provide us with a gift, we are asking that whatever you wanted to spend on an item, that you instead donate as a "gift" toward our 'Honeymoon Fund'. At the reception we will be having a locked box to collect cards and envelopes. We thank you for understanding and the gift of your presence, from the bottom of our hearts.
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Will you be having a Wedding/Bridal Shower and if so, without a registry what can we bring?
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Great question! I will be having a bridal shower. Details on this are posted under our 'List of Events' Tab on this site. For gifts we are asking for 2 specific items. The first one we are asking for, is that you bring a bottle of wine, tequila or whiskey to donate to our home bar. We got a gorgeous bar from the Hartranfts and are refurbishing it and would love to be able to stock it for those date nights at home. For date nights out as a married couple, the second item we are asking for, is that you bring a gift card to one of your favorite restaurants. This way when we hit the town as Mr. & Mrs. Budz, we can use a gift card and think of YOU while enjoying our night out. Again you don't have to bring gifts to attend the shower, but if you wish to, the alcohol and gift cards are what we are asking for and we thank you so much!
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For those planning to attend, are plus ones going to be allowed as well as small children?
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We want everyone who attends our special day to REALLY enjoy themselves. We are paying for our own wedding 100% ourselves and so we are limiting the guest list to 70 people. This means some new significant others and general plus ones wont be allowed. We know a lot of our family and friends have small children, but this day of celebration is for the adults. Because it is our special day we are asking that no children under the age of 13 attend. We want all the parents to attend our wedding and be kid free. Think of it as a date night for just the two of you. We do not want anyone to have to worry about a tired or fussy child. We do understand that no small children, means some may choose to not attend and thats ok. This is the one day in our lives we get to choose how the entire day is spent and enjoyed, and this is our wish. We hope you all understand & thank you from the bottom of our hearts.