FAQ

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What time should we be there?

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The doors open at 4:30 and the ceremony will start promptly at 5pm, so please arrive early to enjoy a glass of bubbly and find a seat.

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Is there a dress code?

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We hope our wedding will be a fun excuse to wear your favorite cocktail or formal attire.

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What's the parking situation?

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There will be valet parking included for guests driving to the venue the night of the wedding. For our out-of-town guests staying at the Royal Sonesta, no need to drive, just take the elevators down to the ballroom.

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What about my dietary restriction?

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Our wedding will be kosher, meat. If you have any other specific concerns or allergies, note it on your RSVP card and we will coordinate with the caterer as best as we can to accommodate your needs.

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Can I bring a plus one / my children?

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We’d love for you to be able to bring them along, but we can only accommodate guests who addressed on the invitation.

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Why is there only one location listed?

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The ceremony and reception will be held at the same location, the ballroom of the Royal Sonesta.

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What Jewish traditions should I expect at your wedding? (Part 1)

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Kabbalat Panim & Tish: When you first arrive at the venue, Jessica will be out in public greeting guests with the ladies. Adam will be in separate room with the men, getting over last-minute jitters. Ketubah: The first ritual is the signing of the ketubah, an ancient marriage contract, that specifies our commitments to each other. Badeken: The badeken happens next, it’s a short but meaningful ceremony where the groom covers the bride’s face with her veil. Chuppah: Onto the betrothal ceremony which will take place under a canopy on four posts, known as a chuppah. Yarmulke: Traditionally, Jewish men cover their heads during rituals. You can wear a suede yarmulke we have ordered for this occasion. Hakafot: Both parents will walk the groom and bride down the aisle, and when we reach the chuppah, we will circle each other seven times. Talit: The bride and groom will be draped in a fringed prayer shawl, a symbol of their new home.

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What Jewish traditions should I expect at your wedding? (Part 2)

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Sheva Brachot: After drinking wine and exchanging rings, the rabbi will recite the 7 ritual blessings. Breaking of the glass: At the end of the ceremony, Adam will stomp on a glass and everyone shouts MAZAL TOV! Yichud: Immediately after the ceremony, Jessica and Adam will spend some time alone for the first time as a married couple. Kiddush and Motzi: We say a few short blessings over wine and bread before the festive dinner meal. The meal will be kosher so there will be no dairy served. Hora: You can expect a lot of Jewish circle dancing known as hora. There's very little to it, just hold hands and step to the music. Follow the guy next to you when you're unsure. The bride and groom will also be lifted on chairs in the air at this time to add to the festivity. L'chaim: When we toast, we say "L'chaim," a Jewish expression which translates in Hebrew as "to life." This is the traditional phrase used at joyous events to celebrate being alive and also to long life ahead.