Kindly RSVP by August 1, 2026 We can’t wait to celebrate with you! Since this is a destination wedding for most of our guests, we kindly ask that you RSVP by August 1, 2026, so we can finalize travel, meals, and seating arrangements. Please let us know whether or not you’ll be joining us by this date - we truly hope to see you there!
The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:00pm, so we ask that guests arrive by 3:30pm to allow time for parking, finding your seat, and getting settled. If you’re taking the shuttle from the hotel, it will be timed to get you to the venue with plenty of time before the ceremony begins. Final shuttle details and pickup times will be shared closer to the wedding date - stay tuned on our website for updates!
Yes! We have reserved room blocks for our wedding weekend. Our preferred hotel, the Hilton Garden Inn Rochester Downtown, is now fully booked. If you’d like to stay within walking distance of the shuttle and other events, we have secured a discount at the Hyatt Regency Rochester. You can find more details and the booking code for this hotel in the Travel section of our website. We also have a second, more budget-friendly option at Home2 Suites Rochester Greece, which does not require a two-night minimum. Booking links and full details for all accommodations can be found in the Travel section.
Yes! We will be providing shuttle transportation to and from the venue. The shuttle will pick up guests staying at both the Hilton Garden Inn Rochester Downtown and the Hyatt Regency Rochester, with a single pickup and drop-off location outside of the Hilton Garden Inn. While we may list a few additional nearby lodging options for your convenience, the shuttle will operate exclusively from this designated pickup location. We’ll share details about which hotel will have shuttle service - along with timing and pickup information - closer to the wedding date. Stayed tuned on our website for updates!
Yes! There is plenty of parking available right at the venue for all guests.
Yes! We’re so excited to spend extra time celebrating with you - we’ll be hosting a welcome dinner and a farewell brunch at the Hilton Garden Inn Rochester Downtown. You can find more details in the Schedule section of our website.
We kindly ask that guests only bring a plus one if it is specified on your formal wedding invitation. If you’re unsure or have questions, please feel free to reach out to us directly!
We love your little ones, but to keep things intimate, our wedding is adults only unless otherwise specified on your formal invitation.
Our dress code is black tie optional. Tuxedos and floor length gowns are welcome and encouraged, but not required. Guests can also wear a dark suit and tie, a sports jacket with dress pants, or a cocktail dress. We want everyone to feel comfortable while looking their best for this special evening!
The ceremony, cocktail hour, and reception will all take place at the same venue. Weather permitting, the ceremony will be held outdoors. In the event of inclement weather, the ceremony will be moved indoors at the same location.