Planning in the midst of a pandemic hasn't been easy, and we appreciate your kindness and understanding ♥ We want our day to be a joyful, low-risk event. To that end, all guests five and up must test negative for SARS-CoV-2 within 72 hours of the event. We are confident that our guests are trustworthy and accountable enough for us to use the honor system. If you are unable or unwilling to fulfill this requirement, let us know as soon as possible. This is a large gathering of different ages & risk levels and this rule is not debatable. You can order 8 tests per household for free at covidtests.gov. If you don’t feel comfortable or safe attending, we completely understand! Your love and support are just as meaningful to us when expressed from a distance. Although this isn't exactly how we pictured our special day, it's important to us that we do our best to protect our family and friends so they are able to join us in celebration.
We’d love to celebrate with everyone! Unfortunately, we just don’t have the space. Guests are limited to whomever is listed on your invitation’s envelope. To avoid any confusion, each person will be individually listed when you fill out your RSVP information as well.
You will be missed! If you cannot make it to the wedding, please let us know by the due date on the details card that came with your invite. We need to know either way so we can plan accordingly.
We have blocks reserved at various hotels in Sparta, WI. Please look at our Travel & Accommodations tab for more information.
BBQ chopped pork, country roasted chicken, coleslaw, garlic red-skinned mashed potatoes, a garden salad with two types of dressings, and buns.
Yes! You will be asked to let us know when submitting your RSVP through the website.
Yes! Parking will be available across the road from the venue. Simply follow the signs guiding you where to go. There will be a parking attendant and a golf cart for shuttling between the parking lot and the venue.
Please do not arrive before 3:00 PM. The vow renewal will begin at 3:30 PM.
It will be right on this website! There will be a "Registry" tab created once we make it.
Wear something you won’t regret when we look back at our photo album in twenty years 😅
We ask that you put your phones and cameras away for the vow renewal. After that, we encourage guests to take and post pictures as they please. Our only request is that you tag us and use our wedding hashtag, #happilyeverafdurr, so we can keep track of all your pictures.
Anyone appearing to be under the age of 35 will be required to show a valid license. Minors accompanied by their parents or guardian are not permitted to be served unless authorized by the bar manager. The venue asked us to advise our guests of this policy and instruct them to bring a current driver's license.