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Shaving the Groom

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The shaving of the groom by the best man and godfather is one of the common Macedonian wedding customs that take place on the morning of the wedding day. It is a symbol of the separation of the groom with his family. To prevent a nervous groom from accidentally cutting himself, the reliable men in his life will assist with the shave. Unsurprisingly the tradition has become one of great theatrics and humor. These days friends and family of the groom will often pretend to shave him with an array of amusing and creative implements. The creative methods have varied from axes, hedge clippers, and swords. A sure fire way to cure those pre-wedding jitters. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tnkcXC6Ndaw

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"Buying" of the Bride

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Some Macedonian Weddings might engage in a game where the bride is "bought". Groomsmen will come to the bride's house to barter with the bride's family until an agreed upon price can be arranged. This practice is reminiscent of dowry payments, and is a throwback to the day when a groom literally did buy the bride – now of course it is just a joke. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bMIRoBh3qn4 Forward the video to 4 minutes : 10 seconds

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The Bride's Shoes

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The bride’s shoes, which are one size bigger, are brought by the best man. He then fills them with money so that they fit the feet of the bride. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bMIRoBh3qn4 Forward the video to 4minutes : 55 seconds

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Kicking a Glass of Water

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Before leaving for a Macedonian wedding ceremony, the bride deliberately kicks over a glass or bowl filled with water to symbolize a life that flows as smoothly as water. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bMIRoBh3qn4 Forward the video to 6minutes : 10 seconds

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The Bread

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Traditionally a family member bakes a round loaf of bread. The godfather of the couple breaks the bread over the heads of the married couple for happiness in their married life. During the reception, the guest dance with the bread. Close family and members of the bridal party take turns holding the bread. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jt9O4NZPaWY

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The Macedonian Orthodox Ceremony

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A Macedonian wedding ceremony is conducted in an Orthodox custom that has a deep meaning. The bride and groom are made to wear grand gold crowns that are tied together using a ribbon. They symbolize the beginning of a new kingdom and the glory and honor that God is bestowing upon them. The crowns are tethered together with a piece of ribbon to symbolize the eternal commitment the couple are making to one another. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bMIRoBh3qn4 Forward the video to 7 minutes : 45 seconds

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The Pig Dance

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The pig dance is often performed at a Macedonian Wedding reception prior to dinner. In this ceremony, the male members of the wedding party dance into the wedding reception, wielding bottles of wine, knives, forks, and a roasted pig. They dance in front of the godparents and other guests, who typically place dollar bills on top of the pig. The pig is designed as a symbol of good fortune and prosperity for the future. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GlckpXmSt5E

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Macedonian Dancing

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The dancing at Macedonian weddings is upbeat and full of energy. The guest hold hands and dance in a line. The center of the circle is composed of the bride, groom, godparents, immediate family, and bridal party. Although it may look intricate, we encourage everyone to dance and celebrate with us! The foot movements are easy to pickup; and even if you cannot, it is still fun to dance to the rhythm! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=i6E7OMswC1Y

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What is the dress code?

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We ask guests to wear formal attire. Men can wear suits, and women can wear evening gowns.

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What happens after the ceremony?

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After the ceremony, the bridal party will be taking pictures nearby for about an hour. Guests can head straight to the reception hall where we will be serving finger foods and beverages.

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Where should guests park? Is parking free?

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Parking is free and can be found at the address on our website and invitations.

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Are kids able to attend?

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Yes, we love your kiddos and would be honored to celebrate the day with them.

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Are the ceremony and reception location wheelchair accessible?

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Yes, absolutely. Please call the venue at (586) 731-4050 if further arrangements are needed.

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Will there be any vegan/vegetarian/gluten free/special diet options?

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If you are in need of a special meal, please call the venue at (586)731-4050 to arrange accommodations.

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Can I take and post pictures of the wedding on social media?

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Yes, we encourage guests to post pictures on to their social media channels. Our only request is that photos are not taken during our ceremony please. We will be more than happy to take photos with guests after the ceremony and at the reception.

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Will you have a bridal shower?

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We have decided that we do not want have a bridal shower. If you would like to purchase a gift, please visit our registry tab. Although a housewarming gift is not expected, it is certainly appreciated.