FAQs
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Where is the ceremony taking place?
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Our ceremony will be held at Sweetest Heart of Mary Parish, a breathtaking Gothic-style church located at 4440 Russell St, Detroit, MI 48207. It is truly one of the most stunning churches in the city — we can't wait to share it with you!
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Is there parking near the ceremony?
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Yes! There is a parking lot on-site as well as street parking available along Russell Street near Sweetest Heart of Mary Parish.
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What time should I arrive?
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Please plan to be seated at least 15–20 minutes before the ceremony begins @4:30PM EST. The ceremony will start promptly, and we don't want you to miss a moment!
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Is the church accessible?
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Yes! Sweetest Heart of Mary Parish is wheelchair accessible and accommodating for guests with mobility needs. If you have any specific questions or would like help coordinating seating arrangements, please don't hesitate to reach out to us at hannajshemke@gmail.com (or text) — we want everyone to feel comfortable.
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Should I drive between the ceremony and reception?
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The church and Colony Club are about a 10-minute drive apart. We encourage guests to plan accordingly — whether by driving, ridesharing, or coordinating with others.
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Where is the reception?
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Following the ceremony, we'll celebrate at The Colony Club, located at 2310 Park Ave, Detroit, MI 48201 — a stunning historic venue in the heart of downtown Detroit.
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Is there parking near the reception?
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Yes — guests will receive a parking validation code with their invitation that covers complimentary parking in the structure near The Colony Club. (Details to be confirmed — check back soon!) Ride-sharing services like Uber and Lyft are also a great option if you'd prefer not to drive.
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What time does the reception begin?
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Cocktail hour begins at 6:00 PM EST, with dinner and dancing to follow in the grand ballroom.
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Is the reception venue accessible?
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Absolutely! The Colony Club is fully wheelchair accessible and welcoming to guests with mobility needs. If you have any questions or need assistance planning your visit, please reach out to us at hannajshemke@gmail.com (or text) and we'll make sure everything is taken care of.
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What is the dress code?
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The dress code is Black Tie Optional. We want everyone to feel their most elegant and celebratory! Think floor-length gowns (only if that is your vibe, literally no pressure!), formal cocktail dresses, tuxedos, or formal suits. Please note that the ceremony takes place in a beautiful historic church, so we kindly ask that shoulders be covered or a wrap be brought along.
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Are children invited?
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We love your little ones, but our wedding is an adults-only event — unless children are specifically named on your invitation. We hope this gives you the chance to enjoy a fun night out!
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When do RSVPs need to be submitted?
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Please RSVP by November 25th, 2026. After that date, we may not be able to accommodate additional guests.
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How do I RSVP?
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You can RSVP directly on this website at the RSVP link which will be available on the formal invitations via a QR code (these will be sent in the fall).
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What if I need to change my RSVP?
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Life happens! Please contact us as soon as possible at hannajshemke@gmail.com (or text) and we will do our best to accommodate changes before November 25th 2026.
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Can I take photos during the ceremony?
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We are having an unplugged ceremony. We kindly ask that you put your phones and cameras away during the ceremony so you can be fully present — and so our photographer can capture every moment without distractions! We'll share professional photos after the wedding.