FAQs
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What should I wear?
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Dress to impress! Please join us in celebrating in formal wear.
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Is there anything I should not wear?
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We kindly ask that you avoid colors traditionally reserved for the bride- whites, ivories, and creams but all other colors are encouraged! We also request no jeans be worn as we want to keep it formal.
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Which Kirin Court is it?
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There are 2 Kirin Court locations. Our wedding will be at the new location in Plano, NOT Richardson!
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Can I bring a plus-one?
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We've worked hard to create an intimate celebration, so only the guests listed on your invitation are invited. If your invitation says "+1" or includes a guest's name, then yes- we'd love for them to join!
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Are kids invited?
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Due to limited numbers, we hope you appreciate that children are only invited if named. Your invitation will be made out to "The {Your Last Name} Family" if your children have been invited and "Mr. and Mrs." if only you and your significant other have been invited.
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Will the reception be indoors or outdoors?
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We know May in Texas can be warm! The reception will be indoors at the Kirin Court Restaurant. Please note that this will be at the Plano location and NOT the Richardson location.
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What kind of food will be served?
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We’ll be serving traditional Vietnamese and Chinese cuisine, family-style. Large dishes will be brought out in multiple rounds and placed in the center of each table for everyone to share. This communal style of dining is all about enjoying food together, sparking conversation, and celebrating with friends and family.
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Will there be a bar?
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Get ready to celebrate! We'll have a full open bar available for the guest. We want everyone to have a great time and get home safely, so please plan ahead for a ride. We highly encourage carpooling or using a rideshare service- your safety is our top priority.
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What is "Chào bàn"?
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Chào bàn" is a deeply rooted Vietnamese wedding tradition where the newlyweds (and often their parents) go around to each and every guest table to personally thank them. While this may be a surprising sight at a Western wedding, it is a cherished ritual in Vietnamese culture. Here's an explanation to help you understand and appreciate the custom: - The Meaning: "Chào bàn" literally translates to "greet the table." It's an important way for the couple to show immense respect and gratitude to every guest who has come to celebrate their big day. It’s a personal gesture of thanks, acknowledging the guest's presence and their part in the celebration. - What to Expect: The couple, accompanied by their parents, will visit each table. A representative from your table will give a short speech or toast to the newlyweds. This is a special moment to share your well wishes and congratulations. It is a unique and heartfelt tradition that makes the celebration feel more personal. - Why It's Important: Haley is so excited to share this important piece of her culture with all of you. In Vietnamese culture, a marriage is not just a union of two people, but two families. This tradition symbolizes the couple's recognition of their guests as part of their extended family and community. It's a way of honoring everyone who has contributed to their lives and their union.
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When should I RSVP?
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Formal invitations will be sent out closer to the wedding date. Once you receive yours, please RSVP by April 5, 2026 through our wedding website. A dedicated RSVP tab will appear when it’s time to respond. We kindly ask everyone to reply by this date so we can finalize our plans. If we don’t hear from you by March 20th, we’ll assume you’re unable to attend, and unfortunately, we won’t be able to reserve a seat.
