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FAQs

The Wedding Website of Tabitha Brandel and Grae Elliott
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Is there a dress code?

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Think garden party - for The Office lovers, this is Connecticut Casual. In all seriousness, plan on summer cocktail. Everything will take place outdoors, so keep that in mind.

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Can I bring a date?

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If they're cool with no seat, no food or drink... maybe water... then please feel free to bring them. We hate to say no, but we kindly ask that you refrain from any plus-ones. The guests we have accounted for in your party are addressed on your invitation.

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Are kids welcome?

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We have no issue with you bringing your little ones, and we will do our best to accommodate. Please be aware that there will be an informal open bar, and we expect a lively atmosphere.

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Are you registered? Where?

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We have set up a honeymoon fund in lieu of a formal gift registry. You can contribute to this via our Registry page on this site. If you have any questions/concerns, let us know!

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Do you have any travel and hotel recommendations?

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For those looking to fly, BWI is the nearest major airport. We will be in a more rural area, so we recommend having access to a car. You likely won’t have much luck with Uber/Lyft, sorry to say! For hotel, check out our travel page on this site for recommendations!

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What is the food and drink situation?

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We will be providing light appetizers, followed by a dinner via food truck. There will be an informal open bar throughout the entire day's events, so we will have alcohol for those that are interested. Of course, will have non-alcoholic options as well. And you are more than welcome to BYOB - we won't kick you out as long as you share a little with us ;)

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When should I RSVP by?

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You can RSVP on this site by May 1, 2026. Feel free to do so earlier if you’d like! If you’re running into any issues, reach out to us.

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What if I can only attend select events?

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Please don't worry. We would love to have you there for everything, but we understand schedules are packed. We are grateful for any time we can spend with you on this special day, so if you can only attend one or two events, that's perfect. You will be able to RSVP to each individual event.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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You can arrive as early as 3:30pm as this is when the celebrations begin. If you are not able to attend the events prior to the ceremony, we recommend arriving no later than 10 minutes prior.

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Any other questions?

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We're just a call or text away, so just let us know!