FAQs

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What does "formal attire" mean?

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Mid to full length dresses, suits, etc. Tuxedos are not expected. Google "formal wedding guest attire" for inspiration.

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What am I supposed to do during the gap between the ceremony and reception?

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Please see our "Things To Do" tab! We have curated a bunch of options for things to keep guests occupied during this gap. We appreciate your understanding. You're also welcome to go take a nap.

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Is it possible I will upstage the bride with fancy wedding guest attire?

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No. But don't wear white.

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Is there a block of rooms reserved for guests?

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No. I personally like to pick my own hotel when I travel places so I projected the same perspective on my guests. We did list some suggestions in the "Travel" tab, though.

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What is the parking situation at the venues?

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Both the ceremony and reception locations have their own dedicated free parking lots, so there shouldn't be any issues with finding a spot.

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Are children invited?

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Yes

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Do I get a plus one?

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If the invited guests differ from the name(s) on the address label, we have written the names of those invited on the internal sleeve within the invitation. If the internal sleeve includes "[your name(s)] and guest", then you may bring a guest!

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My Save the Date said the Ceremony is at 1:30pm, but the invite says 1:00pm. Which one is correct?

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The invite is correct. The Ceremony is at 1:00pm. Quadruple-checked with the Cathedral. Everyone makes mistakes. I will leave it up to your imagination as to whose fault this was. I will give you three guesses: Valerie's, Pearl's, or the Cathedral.