FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Whether you are able to attend our wedding or not, please RSVP! For planning purposes, if you do not RSVP by September 15th, we will assume you are unable to attend. Please contact us if you encounter problems with the online RSVP process so we can resolve any issues in a timely manner.

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What should I do if I can't make it?

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You will be dearly missed! If you can not make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP 'no' so that we can plan accordingly. Thank you!

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Is there a dress code?

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Black tie! Come celebrate our love in your finest threads, guys in tux's and ladies in floor length dresses/gowns. Ladies, the ceremony and cocktail is outdoors, please me sure to wear a thicker heel. Stilettos will be difficult! Any questions about dress code please contact our wedding planner: lindsey@shalehill.com. We kindly ask that no one wear jeans or shorts.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love all of your little ones! However, due to many factors including limited space, and adult beverages being served at the venue, we respectfully request you leave the kiddos at home and take this as an opportunity to enjoy a night out on us!

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Are you registered? Where?

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The registry is on our website, we are registered at Crate and Barrel, West Elm, William & Sonoma & Zola.

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Do I need to be vaccinated?

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Yes! (it's that simple!)

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Can I bring a plus one?

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We were sure to denote all invited guests on the envelope of your invitation, please refer to that or check in with Giorgina or Alex to confirm. Unfortunately, due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on each wedding invitation. If you received a plus one they will appear under your name when you RSVP.

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Can I take pictures during the ceremony?

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We are having an "unplugged" ceremony. This just means we are asking that all phones and devices be put away and on silent/turned off during the ceremony. Why? Well, we've hired a professional to capture some of the most important moments of our lives, and we'd hate to have a well-meaning person's phone/device blocking that moment. After the ceremony, please feel free to take as many photos as you want! And we promise to share the ceremony photos as soon as we get them.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Please arrive for around 4:00pm. The ceremony promptly will begin at 4:30pm.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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Yes! Car service will begin at 3:15 from both the Diamond Mills and The Holiday Inn Express directly to Oz Farm. Remember patience is a virtue and the shuttle didn't forget you!

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Hotel recommendations are located on the TRAVEL tab on the website. Recommended hotels are The Diamond Mills and The Holiday Inn Express. Transportation to and from the venue will be provided for both hotels.

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Is the ceremony outdoors?

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The wedding ceremony and cocktail hour will be outdoors on the venue's lawn (weather permitting). The reception will take place indoors. We recommend wearing grass friendly shoes. :)

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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Yes! In addition to the wedding, there will be a casual welcome cocktails the evening before the wedding on Friday at a local restaurant in Woodstock. Details coming soon.

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I have a problem/concern...who do I contact?

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Please contact our wedding planner Lindsey Hogan from Shale Hill - email: lindsey@shalehill.com / cell: 609.203.4017 OR contact the couples best mates: Jillian Wilson, cell: 914.815.4106 OR Griffin Foley, cell: 914.564.4103. Thank you!