FAQs

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Are kids welcome?

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You'd better believe it! Kids, we encourage you to use our wedding as an opportunity to out-dance your parents, proving once and for all that, while they may hold the power to set your bedtime, you hold the esteemed title of Family Dance Icon.

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What's the vaccination policy?

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First of all, we are so grateful to you for helping us keep this event safe. You all mean the world to us and the last thing we want to do is hold an event that endangers the health of our favorite people! The museum will be checking for proof of vaccination for all those eligible, so please bring either a physical copy of your vaccine card or a digital copy (a photo on your phone is fine!). Unfortunately, if you are eligible but have elected not to receive the vaccine, we ask that you not attend this event.

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What's the dress code?

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Every wedding-planning resource told us we needed to specify this which was tricky because, left to her own devices, Laura would wear the same comfortable pair of jeans every day for the rest of her life, and one of Erik's favorite articles of clothing is his purple onesie PJs with giraffes on them. Alas, our official answer is "cocktail attire."

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Laura, I can't help but notice you used a template for your wedding website. Didn't you just make a big deal out of transitioning into a career as a software engineer? Why didn't you code your own website from scratch, and how can you live with yourself?

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I hear you, and believe me when I say my disappointment in myself is chasm-deep and ocean-vast.

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Is it true that, one time, in an effort to impress Erik with her big-city life, Laura marched him to an art exhibit in lower Manhattan that was just a smallish room full of dirt?

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Yes, naturally.

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Who is better at scrambling an egg, Erik or Laura?

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This is an easy one--Erik. He patiently cooks them over low heat. Laura prefers a different method, which is to scramble the egg over very high heat so it's done fast, tastes just okay, and has an unpleasant texture.

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When saying the word "February," should one pronounce the first "r" or is it okay to say it "feb-yoo-ary?"

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Laura and Erik welcome your input on this matter. Laura has never pronounced the first "r" and Erik has always pronounced it. When they are bored, they enjoy fighting about this.

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Is it true that, one time, in an effort to impress Laura while they were staying in an Airbnb in upstate NY, Erik took her on a 45-minute walk in a snowstorm to a highly-reviewed ice cream parlor he'd found online, only to discover that it was closed because it was, in fact, the middle of winter?

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Affirmative.

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What was Laura's verbatim response when Erik asked her to marry him?

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"Totally."