FAQs

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When Should I RSVP?

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Please RSVP by August 1, 2026. If you don't RSVP by then, you will be marked as "not attending". We would love celebrating with you, however, we have to provide an exact guest count to our vendors and cannot accept late RSVP's.

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Can I take Pictures?

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We are having an "unplugged ceremony" (no phones or cameras). The greatest gift you can give us is being fully present as we say "I do". We have hired professionals to capture this moment for us and we promise to share our photos as soon as we receive them. After the ceremony, feel free to take as many photos and videos as you like!

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Are Children Invited?

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Yes! We would love to have your little ones present on our big day! However we do ask that you keep an eye on your kids at the reception, and keep in mind their noise level during the ceremony.

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What Time Should I Arrive?

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The ceremony will being punctually at 4:30 in the evening, please arrive no later than 4:15pm or you will sadly miss out on our ceremony.

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What is the Dress Code?

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We encourage all guests to wear your best formal attire. Formal dress code for women includes, floor length gowns, tea-length and midi dresses. For men this includes suits or a nice dress shirt (please no jeans).

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Can I Bring a Date?

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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. If you receive a plus one they will appear under your name when you RSVP. Thank you for understanding!

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Will the wedding be indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will take place by the pond, reception will be indoors. Ladies- there is gravel and stairs to get to the ceremony site, so please keep that in mind when picking out shoes! Parking is free at Heyward Manor, and there will be a parking attendant directing traffic.

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Is there a Registry?

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Your presence at our wedding is the greatest gift of all! If you'd like to give a gift, a contribution toward our future goals would mean the world to us- but please know it is never expected, only appreciated. A registry tab is located on our website. If you have any questions please reach out to the bride or groom!

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! Drinks are on us, but please keep in mind that there are kids in attendance, and we want you to get safely home!