FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP no later than September 5th, 2025. We will reach out sooner if the majority of guests reply early and we’re only waiting for a handful to respond. This will be to update the vendors as soon as possible!

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Are you registered? Where?

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Yes! Our only registry is on this website. Please click on the "Registry" header to view it.

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What time should I arrive for the ceremony?

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Please arrive between 3:30 and 4pm as the ceremony will start promptly at 4:05pm. If you’re running late (it’s The Bay Area, it happens), please wait until the end of the processional to find a seat in the back!

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Is there a dress code?

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Our only dress requirement is that you don't wear white #duh lol. Otherwise, please just respect the importance of the occasion! We won't judge if you want to wear jeans, just make them your nice jeans.

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to space restrictions and the couple wanting to keep this event personal, Plus Ones will be indicated on each invitation.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones, but to ensure a worry-free day, we are hosting a celebration for ages 13+. We apologize for any inconvenience this might cause!

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Please let us know of any food allergies on your RSVP! Our caterers (taco stand) have vegetarian/vegan options and we can request corn tortillas to respect gluten intolerant guests.

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Is there parking for the ceremony & reception?

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Yes! There is parking available in the first driveway on the right, in front of the garages. There is also street parking available (ignore the 'no parking' signs, the neighbors do) and possibly additional parking at the golf course clubhouse up the street (5 minute walk from the house). We will be reserving the second driveway at the front door for the wedding party and pictures so please do not park directly in front. You may use it as a drop-off location for a family member who needs accommodations before moving to a new spot! Cones may be used for blocking the reserved spots.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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As of right now, no transportation will be provided to and from the hotels. There are, however, several hotels within a 15 minute drive so please check the travel tab for our recommendations!

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What’s this I hear about “Adult Swim”?

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While there is a pool at the venue, please do not plan on swimming. For the first hour or so of dancing, we will have a more family-friendly vibe. Around 8pm, we will transition to the “Adult Swim” portion of music. At this time, explicit songs will be played so viewer and listener discretion will be advised.