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October 23, 2026
Rye, NY
#gaffneytograyson

Shannon & Brandon

FAQ

The Wedding Website of Shannon Marie Gaffney and Brandon Scott Grayson
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What time should I arrive?

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We ask that you please arrive at 3:30pm, 30 minutes before the ceremony begins.

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How and when should I Rsvp?

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You may RSVP through our wedding website. A link to respond, and our RSVP deadline, will be provided on your formal invitation.

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Is there a hotel block and a guest shuttle?

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Yes! Please see our "Accommodations" page for information about our hotel block at Sonesta White Plains and guest transportation through Settembre. *Please note the information about hotel check-in times.*

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What is the dress code?

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The dress code is Black Tie Optional. Black Tie or Formal attire are both appropriate. This includes floor length gowns, formal ankle-length or tea-length dresses, formal jumpsuits, tuxedos, and suits/ties. Please no white/ivory (except for men's dress shirts), and please note that our bridal party is wearing burgundy.

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Can I bring a plus-one, and are children invited?

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All invited guests will be indicated on your formal invitation and in the RSVP section of our website. We are only able to accommodate those who are formally invited. We thank you for understanding and can't wait to celebrate with you!

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Is the wedding indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be outdoors in front of the castle. The cocktail hour will be both outdoors and indoors. The reception will be indoors in the ballroom. In the event of inclement weather, the ceremony will be moved indoors to the ballroom.

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Do you have a registry?

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We are so grateful for your love and support—your presence is the greatest gift of all! If you do feel inclined to give a gift, our registry can be found here on our website. We are especially excited about planning a honeymoon trip to Europe and visiting Rome, Florence, and Paris together!