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FAQs

The Wedding Website of Cassandra Olivarez and Alexander Shanafelt
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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP no later than September 1st, 2026. However, we would greatly appreciate your RSVP as soon as possible.

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Are gifts expected?

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Your presence is the greatest gift. However, if you wish to honor us with a gift, a registry link can be found on our website. We are registered on Amazon and Zola. Go to the "Registry" tab above to check it out!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Ceremony begins at 3pm. We recommend arriving 30 minutes before the ceremony to allow time for parking, finding your seat, and getting settled before mass begins.

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What happens after the ceremony?

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Following the reception, we will travel to the reception venue (8min drive). Join us for cocktail hour, dinner, dancing, desserts, and plenty of celebrating!

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Is there a dress code?

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Attire is black tie optional. We invite guests to dress in formal evening attire. Tuxedos and formal gowns are welcome but not required. A dark suit and tie, formal cocktail dress, elegant jumpsuit, or other formal attire are perfectly appropriate. Our goal is for everyone to look their best while feeling comfortable celebrating with us.

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Are kids welcome?

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Absolutely! We love your little ones and are excited to celebrate with guests of all ages. We can't wait to see the dance floor filled with tiny dancing feet and big smiles.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Yes, please let us know and we are happy to accommodate.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes, there is ample parking at the ceremony. At the reception, there are 80 parking spots, with overflow parking at the lot next door. Overnight parking is prohibited.

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Is there a dance floor?

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Yes. Talent is optional, enthusiasm is required.

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What should I do if I can't attend?

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We'll miss celebrating with you! Please let us know as soon as possible by updating your RSVP so we can plan accordingly.

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Can I bring a plus-one?

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Only guests listed on your invitation are included in our celebration. If a plus-one has been reserved for you, it will appear on your invitation and RSVP.

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Is the ceremony indoors or outdoors?

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The ceremony will be held indoors at the church. Cocktail hour will be indoors at Gather Estate and the reception will follow outdoors.

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Will there be an open bar?

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Yes! Beer, wine, and signature cocktails will be provided. Please celebrate responsibly and arrange transportation if needed.

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Will transportation be provided?

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At this time, transportation will not be provided. We recommend using rideshare services if you plan to enjoy alcoholic beverages.

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Are there any rules?

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1. Have fun. 2. Eat well. 3. Party hard. 4. Don't let Alex near the microphone after 9pm.