Black-Tie Optional. https://www.brides.com/black-tie-optional-wedding-attire-4800698
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then yes, if not, we would prefer if it was just you.
If your invitation includes your child's name, then yes, if not, we want you to enjoy our wedding as a night off!
Yes, outside of the reception hall there will be a fire pit where you can relax and enjoy views of the water.