FAQs

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Will Mattie Be in Attendance?

Answer

We know. We know. This is our MOST asked question that everyone is dying to know the answer to. Our girl is a little crazy with big crowds so she will spend a nice relaxing evening with her dog sitter. Don't worry though, she will spend all day with mom getting ready with the girls so she doesn't feel left out. She also BEGGED mom for temporary tattoos for the reception and mom said yes!

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please let us know if you’ll be celebrating with us by Monday, July 27, 2026. As we finalize plans with our venue, we won’t be able to accommodate changes after this date. If we don’t hear from you, we’ll assume you’re unable to attend and will miss celebrating with you!

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Can I bring a plus one/my child?

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We wish we could celebrate with everyone, including your littles, but due to limited venue capacity, we’re only able to accommodate those included in each guest’s invitation, with exceptions for family children and those in the wedding party. To see who’s included, please check your RSVP—when you search your name, everyone in your party will appear there. Thank you for understanding—we can’t wait to celebrate with you!

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Will transportation be provided to and from the venue?

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We won’t be providing transportation, so please plan to use Uber, Lyft, or a designated driver—especially if you’ll be drinking or joining the after-party. If you drive, you may leave your car overnight at Daniel’s Vineyard and pick it up by 10:00 AM. Your safety is our priority, so please plan ahead.

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What should I wear?

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We’re requesting semi-formal garden party attire. See our full What to Wear page for colors, outfit examples, and what to avoid.

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What should I do if I have questions before the big day?

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Feel free to reach out to jhheidemanwedding@gmail.com or wedding planner’s contact. We’ll be a little busy the week of, but we’ll do our best to get back to you quickly! We will provide our coordinators information at a later date.