We love your kids—we really do! But if your invite does not specify "and family" or your children's names on it, then we ask that you kindly respect our wishes. In order to keep our guest list on track we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your wedding invitation.
If your invitation says “and Guest,” then they are invited to everything (ceremony/dinner/dance) if not, we would prefer if it was just you, but we welcome them to join for the dance!
Cocktail, please (no jeans). But we want you to feel comfortable, so if those shoes are too high or that top button is too tight, let it all hang loose.