FAQs
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Wait...what is the timeline?
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Our ceremony will be a small, private moment with just our immediate families. The party starts when you show up - right after the “I Do’s”! We’ve been together forever (you know this), and we wanted a quiet moment to soak it all in before the festivities. But trust us — the moment the rings are on, it’s your time to shine with us.
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What time should I arrive?
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Please arrive promptly at 5:00 PM to kick off the cocktail hour! This will give you time to settle in, enjoy a drink, and ensure you don’t miss the start of dinner service. However, we do understand that we are having our celebration on a Friday night and we would love for you to be able to attend regardless of work obligations. Please let the bride or groom know ahead of time if need to arrive after the start of cocktail hour.
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Is there a dress code?
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We’re going for a dressed-up vibe — think cocktail attire. Long or short dresses are totally welcome. It should go without saying, but we’ll say it anyway: absolutely no white. For the guys (and really, everyone): no jeans, please! Dress it up — suits, slacks, sport coats, and nice shoes are the way to go. We’d love to see rich fall colors in the mix: deep reds, earthy greens, rusts, golds — all the cozy, moody tones of the season. TLDR: It’s a wedding! You should be dressed to impress — this is our one and only, and we want you looking fabulous for it.
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Can I bring a date?
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We truly wish we could celebrate with everyone, but due to limited space, we’re only able to accommodate the guests listed on the invitation. If your invite was addressed to just you (or you and a specific guest), that means we’ve reserved a spot just for those named.
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Can I bring my children?
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With so many little ones in the family, we know the energy would be off the charts—but we’re planning an adult-only (18+) celebration. We want to keep the party going all night without having to call it quits early! Thanks for understanding, and get ready for a crazy good time!