Who knew true love could be found online? Neither of us really expected the whole endeavor to be a success. Picture this - A girl in a quiet apartment room is swiping hopelessly left, assuming life as a cat lady was the only option remaining. In another room (Jason's basement probably), a boy was convinced to download the newest dating app to finally find "the one" (Thank you Garrett!) Little did either person know - a mutual attraction and love of Parks and Recreation guaranteed a promising meeting! The rest was history <3
The next few months were filled with excitement, exploration, and adventure. From getting to know a whole other side of Pittsburgh to beautiful weekend trips, it became clear quite quickly that this person might be the one. What was the biggest clue?? ANXIETY. They say that anxiety is the fear of the future and that certainly was the case for me. Being face to face with who would become your person is enough to make anyone pause - This was a big deal! Fortunately, Matt was filled with so much patience and compassion which fostered understanding and trust. The development of this foundation allowed me to relinquish any fear that had been bottled up and in the end we would both confess our love in the same moment.
We've now spent nearly 3 years together holy cow! Since the beginning we've moved in together, bought a car together, and created so many more memories that are too cheesy to mention here. We passed our time kicking each others' butt in dice, fixing up the house, finding new shows on Netflix, and discussing all the things any one in love dreams of for their future. Next thing I know, my 30th birthday was fast approaching and the two of us had the best trip planned to our favorite state to visit - Delaware!!!! So much fun planned with some of my favorite people. Little did I know (like at all) that during our trip to Longwood Gardens, my best friend would sneak in last minute to attend and take pictures as the love of my life got down on one knee to ask for my hand in marriage. We were both in tears as I asked if he was sure - of course he was! I would not have dry eyes for the rest of the day as we would announce our engagement to all those we loved. Little did I know he had been planning to ask me for 6 months.
Who would've thought that amidst the planning and dreaming and excitement that the world would endure what would be one of the worst pandemics in our history. Suddenly everything we dreamed of for our big day seems as though it won't come true. It still may not! Many tears and much conversation later, it is decided that no matter what state the world is in, we would be married as planned. It may not be as we pictured, but the party isn't what's important. I love him. He loves me. That's all that matters. And don't forget - We love you!!!! We respect any decision you make for yourself and your family.