FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

Save the Date: Please let us know by October 1, 2026 if you're hoping to attend so we can plan lodging and transportation. If you'd like a spot at the Jarvis Homestead, please email Erika and pay by this date. Formal RSVP: Please RSVP by January 15, 2027 with your final attendance.

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Are kids welcome?

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We love your little ones, but we've decided to keep our wedding an adults-only celebration so everyone (including parents!) can fully relax and enjoy the evening. We hope this gives you a chance to enjoy time away, and we can't wait to celebrate with you.

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

Answer

We are inviting up to 15 people to stay with us at the Jarvis Homestead. You can find this information in the Travel tab. If you prefer to stay at a hotel, we'll be updating that information on the Travel tab of the website by mid-Summer 2026.

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Are you registered? Where?

Answer

Not in the traditional sense! After raising kids and building homes, we have more toasters than two people could ever need. Your presence is genuinely the best gift, but if you'd like to give something, we've set up gift contributions through Zola. You can find those on the Registry tab. No pressure. Just gratitude.