FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

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While we’d like everyone to be as comfortable as possible throughout the day, we would also love to see our family and friends dressed up with us! The dress code is summer formal. Think floor mid / floor length dresses for women and a suit and a tie for men. We remind our guests that the weather on the Cape in early September is usually warm, but it will get cooler after the sun sets. The ceremony and cocktail hour will also be outside on the harbor where there may be a breeze.

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When is the RSVP deadline?

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We are requesting that all responses are provided by July 20th, 2025.

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Will transportation be provided for welcome drinks?

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YES! The Welcome Party is being held at the Pelham House Resort, 14 Sea St. in Dennis Port, 7pm to 10pm. There is no parking onsite for wedding event guests. To get to the venue there are two options: 1. Shuttle service - We're providing a shuttle service that will run continuously back and forth between 6:30pm and 10:30pm from a designated parking lot located at Pelham on Earle (a sister resort, 8 minutes from the Welcome Party location). You may drive your car to 30 Earle Rd., West Harwich, where an attendant will direct you on where to park and the shuttle will pick you up and drop you back off there. THE SHUTTLE WILL ALSO MAKE STOPS AT BLUEBIRD & THE WYCHMERE 2. Uber - fully available on the Cape in Septemeber

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Are children invited?

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While we absolutely love kids, due to the 21+ nature of our event, we have decided to keep our wedding and reception an adults-only affair with the exception of immediate family members. If your child was invited, they will appear under your name when you RSVP. We encourage you to make a trip out of the weekend with your little ones - especially if you choose to rent! There is a fully licensed babysitting referral service based out of Chatham called "Summer Sitters" that we recommend using for the night of our wedding. Here is their website: https://www.summersitters.com/

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Is there parking for the ceremony and reception?

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There is a generous amount of parking at the reception venue and you are able to leave your car overnight! YOU MUST PICK UP YOUR CAR BY 10AM THE NEXT MORNING.