FAQs

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Can I take photos or videos during the Mass?

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Our ceremony is a reverent and sacred event, and it would be inappropriate to have phones or cameras out during the Mass. We want everyone to fully participate in and respect the Sacrament of Holy Matrimony. We’ve hired a professional photographer and videographer to capture every moment beautifully, that we plan to share so we can all enjoy the ceremony without worrying about taking pictures yourself. Don’t worry! There will be a planned opportunity during the Mass for guests to take a photo with the couple on their phones, so everyone can have a personal keepsake without disrupting the worship.

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 2:00 PM. As this will be a full Catholic Mass, it is important that the ceremony starts on time without interruptions. We kindly ask guests to arrive no later than 1:45–1:50 PM to allow time to be seated. Please note: The doors will close at 1:55 PM, and late entry will not be permitted until an appropriate moment in the Mass.

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Can I bring anything into the ceremony?

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We kindly request you to please leave all purses, bags, and other large items in your car. We’re filling the church with so many of our favorite people, so space will be very tight!

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Is there a dress code?

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Yes. Since the ceremony will be a full Catholic Mass, we kindly ask guests to dress reverently for the occasion. The dress code is semi-formal / cocktail, and we encourage everyone to wear their “Easter Best.” In regards to what color to wear, we just ask that you don’t wear white. Our wedding colors are light blue with some purple if that helps any. For guidance: Ladies: sundresses, nice slacks with a blouse, or other dressy outfits. Men: slacks with dress shoes and a button-down shirt or a nice polo.

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Can I bring a date?

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Unfortunately, we are already at capacity and can only accommodate the people specifically named on your invitation. If a plus one was included, it will be indicated as “[Name] and Guest.” If your invitation says “The [Last Name] Family,” this includes the couple and their children. If you have any questions about who is included on your invitation, please feel free to reach out to us. Thank you for understanding!

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I'm Not Catholic. What should I expect?

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Our wedding ceremony will take place during a full Catholic Mass, which typically lasts about 60 minutes. The Mass includes prayers, readings from Scripture, a short homily from the priest, and the celebration of our marriage. There will be times during the Mass when the congregation stands, sits, and kneels. Please feel free to participate as much or as little as you are comfortable with. Holy Communion will also take place during the Mass. In the Catholic Church, Communion is reserved for practicing Catholics who are properly prepared to receive it. If you are not Catholic or prefer not to receive Communion, you are welcome to remain seated. We will provide a worship aid that outlines the order of the Mass so guests can easily follow along. Most importantly, please don’t worry about knowing what to do, just follow the congregation and enjoy the celebration. We’re grateful you’ll be there with us!

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Are you registered? Where?

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Your presence is the greatest gift! If you would like to contribute, we have created a honeymoon fund and a registry, both linked on the "Registry" page of this website.

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When should I RSVP by?

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Please RSVP by April 24 This is so we can finalize numbers with our venue and caterer. If you’re unable to attend, we completely understand, we know a Friday wedding can be hard to swing, just let us know by the deadline.