FAQs
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When should I RSVP by?
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To give us enough time to confirm our final guest count with our venue and caterer, please RSVP by September 7th. You can do so through the "RSVP" tab on this website.
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Is there a dress code?
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If you're attending the Welcome Happy Hour, you're free to wear whatever you feel most comfortable in. Our venue is pretty laid back! For the Wedding Ceremony and Reception, the general dress code is Cocktail/Semi-Formal. Here's a helpful guide since that attire name doesn't really explain much: https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/cocktail-wedding-attire-guide With that said, the reception venue is kind of glammy, so if you want to go Black Tie Optional/Formal so you can have some bougie pics of yourself, we aren't opposed to that either. Here are some ideas for that, too. https://www.zola.com/expert-advice/what-to-wear-and-not-wear-to-a-black-tie-wedding PS - If it wasn't obvious as wedding etiquette already, please don't wear white, ladies. 😉
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Are children invited to the ceremony and reception?
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Outside of our nieces and nephews joining us for the Welcome Happy Hour and Ceremony, our wedding festivities are adults only. Have yourselves a kid-free night out, mom & dad!
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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?
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Absolutely! When you RSVP, please note any allergies or dietary requests and we'll make sure our caterer accommodates them.
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony will start at 2:30pm. If you plan on attending, please allow time for parking, seating, and quick hellos with other guests by arriving between 2:00 and 2:15pm. The church doors will be closed for entry promptly at 2:30pm.
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What should I do between the ceremony and reception?
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There are a couple of hours of downtime, so check out our Things To Do tab for places to visit between wedding events.
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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?
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Yes and yes! For the ceremony, there is a large parking lot to the right of the church. For the reception, there is a large parking lot across Seneca Street from the venue off of Cazanovia Street behind M&T Bank. Park in the lot, cross over Seneca Street at the crosswalk, and you can't miss the marquee at the front of The Show at Shea's Seneca. Even better, our names will be on it. Grabbing a lift from a ride-share service like Uber or Lyft is also encouraged!
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Will Vinny be taking his shirt off at some point?
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While we can't guarantee the outcome due to Vinny's typical wild antics, Vegas has this at -1200 so the odds are in favor of him removing some article of clothing before the night is over. It was originally -800, but recent dance floor events motivated the change in odds.