We're getting married!

Look, we’ve all heard horror stories from the online dating universe. Maybe you have first-hand experience, or it was a close friend, or maybe you’ve just read about it on the internet. Suffice to say, both of us were skeptical of the process when we met on an online dating app five short years ago. That skepticism faded quickly, as we spent the next few weeks texting and chatting non-stop. We had common interests, instant chemistry, and Elyssa even laughed at James’ horrible jokes. Before our first date, it felt as if we had been talking for years and knew everything about each other. We met up at one of our favorite local bars, Federales, and the digital chemistry seamlessly translated in person. We definitely knew this was meant to be when each of us “hit the bell” on our first try (a Federales tradition where you throw shot glasses made of ice at a bell on the outdoor patio!). After that first date, feelings were strong and we knew this was the real deal!

Since the anniversary of our first date (12/28) is so close to New Year’s Eve, we decided to celebrate our third anniversary that night. We went on a swanky 1920s themed cruise around the San Francisco Bay. As everyone began the countdown to midnight, James got down on one knee and asked Elyssa to marry him. She excitedly said “YES” and then the most insanely gorgeous firework sequence began in the background. The ring was STUNNING and it couldn’t have been a more perfect night!!! We are so excited to celebrate this next chapter of our lives with you. See you in Wine Country!