Wedding Party
Ashlyn Bollman
Matron of Honor
Ashlyn and I met in Kindergarten. We have pretty much done everything together since then, from pretending we were going to be on American Idol at recess to the crazy adventures in high school. She has been my partner in crime through it all, and there has never been a dull moment when we are together.
Zach Ildza
Best Man
My big brother Zach is the deep thinker who's always pushed me to grow - through late-night life talks, leading by example, and even our epic Costa Rica adventure. He served in the Navy in Japan which was a awesome experience. We still bond over video games and minor debates and I couldn't ask for a better best man or brother.
Desirae Graybill
Matron of Honor
Desirae was one of my first friends in Kindergarten, and we pretty much grew up doing everything together. From watching Hannah Montana, to fist-pumping through our Jersey Shore phase at Heritage Hall. We've been through every era, including the awkward teenage years. She's always down for anything and everything, and I appreciate her so much for always being by my side.
Nicholas Ildza
Man of Honor
My younger brother Nicholas is the funny, life-of-the-party who's overcome more than most and still keeps the laughs coming. As the baby of the family, he got tough early as he was the victim of a lot of fights haha. We bond over shows and video games. He also has a hilarious story about his trip to Michigan with our Grandpa. Couldn't pick a better man of honor than him.
Katelynn Harman
Matron of Honor
Katelynn was the first person I met when I moved to Liberty at the age of 5, and fortunately, she was stuck with me for the next 20 years as my neighbor. She's more than a friend; she's family. No one can make me laugh harder than she does (and vice versa). Life without her would be way too boring.
Trevor Young
Man of Honor
Trevor and I go way back to our fraternity days at Mizzou, where we survived the accounting program together (and the fraternity). He's from a small town in Missouri, Pleasant Hill, and is hands-down one of the hardest working people I've ever met - now crushing it in New York. When he's not grinding you'll find him fishing or eating an apple. Couldn't ask for a more loyal and driven friend to stand up as my Man of Honor.
Emma Geisinger
Bridesmaid
Emma and I met when I joined United (soccer team) and we've been friends ever since! We won championships together, spent what felt like every weekend at her house, and had too much fun causing chaos from Worlds of Fun adventures to silly fart pranks at the movie theater. She's always been down for a laugh and good time! I am so grateful for her friendship!
Ben Elrod
Groomsman
Ben, Grace's younger brother and my future brother-in-law, is very driven as a tiler, loves a good game of cornhole, and always game for a new bourbon. We had a blast on our Cabo San Lucas trip taking all those Scooby Snack shots, and I'm excited to keep getting to know him as family. His girlfriend is Gracie Brown, a bridesmaid. Thrilled to have him by my side.
Kaylee McCartney
Bridesmaid
Kaylee and I have been friends ever since our William Jewell soccer camp days! Every summer break, we were inseparable, always hanging out, being silly, and going on endless little adventures. She's been bringing fun and laughter into my life ever since!
Caleb Murphy
Groomsman
Caleb and I go way back to high school at St. Pius X, where we battled together on the football field and wrestling mat. He's the guy who makes the nights out unforgettable, full of laughs and good times. Over the years, we've built countless memorable experiences. Excited to have a great friend standing by my side on the big day.
Chase Wrigley
Bridesman
I've known Chase since elementary school! We've crossed paths over the years and somehow never stopped being part of each other's lives. Chase is truly the life of the party and always knows how to have a good time. Honestly, everyone needs a Chase in their life!
Patrick Revnew
Groomsman
Patrick and I met in high school at SPX where we played football together and started some great memories. He's a world traveler (AKA PointsPat) with the perfect girlfriend - Stephanie, who's a pilot. He's coined me as "Uncle" because I was a grade older back in the Liberty days. Excited to have him by my side for the wedding day.
Kara Ildza
Bridesmaid
Kara is my future sister-in-law and Ryan's little sister. I remember meeting her just before she started high school, and we've gotten so close since. I can't wait for her to officially be my sister and SPOILER ALERT, she can't get rid of me now, haha!
Johnathon Wight
Groomsman
Johnathon is hands-down the most charismatic person I know - he can lighten the mood in any situation and always keeps the energy high. We have countless memories dating all the way back to grade school at St. James, trading Yu-Gi-Oh cards, watching Texas Chainsaw Massacre, etc. Just recently he welcomed his first child, and I'm excited to see him step into fatherhood. Pumped to have my lifelong friend by my side on the big day.
Gracie Brown
Bridesmaid
Gracie has been my brother's girlfriend for over five years now, and at this point, she's basically family (just waiting on the ring lol). We really got close on our family trip to Mexico, and since then, she's fit right in with all of us! I am excited for her to be joining me by my side on Ryan & I's big day!
Bobby Vutich
Groomsman
Bobby and I first linked up at SPX, where we played football together and started building some solid memories. He's the best gambler I know, a die-hard Chiefs fan through and through (and the Jayhawks but I forgive him for that one). We had an absolute blast in Nashville for his bachelor party and he's always up for a good time. Excited to have him by my side for the big day.
Jocelyn Contreras
Bridesmaid
Jocelyn and I met when she was about to graduate from Northwest, and we instantly bonded over being super artsy and creative. During COVID, we spent a ton of time together talking about everything under the sun. These days, we have a side hustle together, which is the perfect excuse to get creative and have fun!
Zach Michalek
Groomsman
Zach and I first met at SPX, where we played football together and kicked off years of great memories. We were both accounting majors (different schools), and after college, we lived together for multiple years bonding over video games and nights out. He's a Nebraska fan who's stuck it out over the years like a true loyalist. He's been a rock-solid friend through it all. Thrilled to have him standing by my side on the big day.
Emma Strohm
Bridesmaid
Emma and I met at Northwest at a darty, and we’ve been close ever since (with a memorable first meeting where I may have “saved” her from her ex). She’s one of the funniest people I know and a true country girl at heart, always bringing fun and energy wherever she goes.
Matthew Ng
Groomsman
Matthew Ng and I met in high school and since have become close friends through a variety of memorable experiences. We ran track together, had an awesome trip to Chicago where we saw Zedd and even watched the whole Naruto series during COVID. He loves working out, motivating everyone around him, and as a great photographer, he captured Grace and I's proposal photos - making him a perfect groom attendant.
Sutton Bollman
Flower Girl
Miss Sutton is Ashlyn & Trent's baby girl. Grace is one of her aunts, and now she is forever part of the 2002 crew.
Luna
Best Dog
Luna is the best girl and even though she can't be at the ceremony, she is celebrating at home with Lucy and Leo.