FAQs
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What should I wear?
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We're dressing up and we would love for our family and friends to do the same! The requested attire for the evening is formal, with black tie preferred. Feel free to wear any color you love, but kindly avoid white.
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How do I book my hotel room?
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Please call the hotel directly to book as part of our room block. You will need to book no later than 4/15/26. Please see the travel page of our website for hotel information.
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When should I rsvp by?
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We kindly ask that you respond by April 13, 2026. This will help us finalize the details and ensure everyone has an amazing experience on our special day.
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What if I don't rsvp in time?
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If we do not receive your RSVP by the requested date, you will be automatically marked as "Not Attending". We will miss celebrating with you, but it is imperative we provide our venue and vendors with a final headcount within the timeframe they have given us.
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What should I do if I can't make it?
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You will be missed! If you cannot make it to the wedding, please RVSP "no" as soon as possible so we can plan accodingly.
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What time should I arrive?
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Our ceremony will begin at 2:30 pm. Arriving prior to or by 2:30 is perfect! Our cocktail hour begins at 6 pm.
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Will transportation be provided?
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Transportation will not be available from the hotel to the church. However, transportation will be provided to and from the reception hall for guests who book within our room block at the Courtyard Marriott in Montvale.
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Is the venue indoor or outdoor?
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The ceremony will be held inside at the church. While our reception will be indoors, our venue does have a lovely outdoor patio and garden that will be accessible to our guests.
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What will the weather be like?
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Typical May weather in New Jersey is the start of warmer weather, with the average high temperature is around 67-75°F. There is a chance of thunderstorms, but we're keeping our fingers crossed for plenty of sun!
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Can I bring a plus 1?
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Due to limited capacity, we are only able to accommodate those formally invited. If you receive a plus 1, it will be addressed on your invitation and when you RSVP on our website.
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Are children invited?
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While we love your little ones, this is strictly an adults only occasion, with exception to those children in the wedding.
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Will there be an open bar?
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Yes! The drinks are on us, the hangover is on you! If you are not taking the shuttle back to the hotel with us and you plan on drinking, please arrange for transportation.
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What type of food will be served?
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We'll be serving hors d'oeuvres at cocktail hour, followed by a sit-down dinner with your choice of entree. You can select your choice of entree following cocktail hour, once guests have been seated. An assortment of desserts will also be available towards the end of the evening.
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Will there be a welcome party?
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While we would love to host a welcome party for our guests, will be having an intimate rehearsal dinner with our immediate family and bridal party.
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Will there be an after party?
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Yes, our after party will be hosted at the Courtyard Marriott hotel lobby bar.
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Will there be food or beverages at the after party?
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Yes, a hosted open bar will be available for our after party guests until a set limit is reached. Please note that once our bar tab reaches its limit, it will transition to a cash bar. Additionally, we will provide some end of night snacks.
