FAQs

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What is the dress code for the ceremony and reception?

Answer

Cocktail (kindly note that the reception will be on grass!)

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What is cocktail attire?

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Cocktail attire is a balance between formal and casual, while elegant and comfortable. For an event with this dress code, men typically wear a suit and tie while women wear a cocktail dress.

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How do I RSVP?

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Please confirm your attendance on the RSVP tab of this website once you receive your formal invitation.

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Are you doing a welcome party on Friday?

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We are not doing a Welcome Party on Friday! We understand vacation time can be scarce, and schedules are tricky. The most important thing to us is to make the weekend as easy as possible for everyone attending. That said, if you feel like hitting the town, please reach out to us so we can give you a few recommendations!

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Can we park on site for the ceremony and reception?

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Yes, there is parking available at both the ceremony and reception.

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Are there shuttles for guests throughout the wedding day?

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Yes! Buses will be leaving the Sag Harbor Inn at 3:15 PM on Saturday, May 21st. These buses will bring guests from Sag Harbor to the church, to the reception, and back from the reception to Sag Harbor at 10 PM.

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Are children welcome?

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We kindly ask you to make other arrangements for your children unless explicitly invited.

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How long does it take to get from the church to the beach club?

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About 10 minutes.

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We want to rent a house but don't know where to stay. What would you recommend?

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We're trying to encourage everyone to stay as close to Sag Harbor as possible! If you're not finding anything that works in Sag Harbor, we would recommend Southampton, Bridgehampton, or Wainscott.