FAQs

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What pronouns do the Bride, Groom, and Bridal Party use?

Answer

They are all present in the short bio blurbs in the Wedding Party section, but we will also put them here just in case! -Elise (The Bride) uses They/Them pronouns. -Patrick (The Groom) uses He/Him pronouns. -Kassidy (Maid of Honor) uses She/Her pronouns. -Nico (Bridesmaid) uses They/Them pronouns. -Meridian (Bridesmaid) uses They/Them pronouns. -Tyler (Man of Honor) uses He/Him pronouns. -Olly (Groomsman) uses He/Him pronouns. -Chase (Best Man) uses He/Him pronouns.

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When should I RSVP by?

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The RSVP cards you received with your invitation should have the date listed, but just in case you lose it/it gets misplaced/we forgot to send one, please try and respond before June 15, 2024!

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Are you registered/do you have a registry?

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We do not- we don't need one! We already have so many items for if we were to find our own place again that we have nothing specific to ask for. In lieu of gifts, we are instead looking to save up funds for our Honeymoon to Belize in March 2025. If you wish to help us with that, it's not required by any means but we would greatly appreciate it!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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Your best bet would to arrive by about 1:00 PM to 1:30 PM- there aren't a lot of parking spaces available in the lots closest to the pavilion where the ceremony will take place, so if you can't find a spot, you might have to walk. Please be sure to bring appropriate footwear just in case this happens!

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Can I bring a date?

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The amount of guests expected to attend is quite high, and there might not be enough amenities to be able to accommodate more people if they were not included on the invitations we sent out. However, if you reach out to either Elise or Patrick and ask/inform us that you wish to bring a Plus One and tell us who it is, we can definitely do our best to make it work for you- but PLEASE, make sure you ask us first before bringing someone as your date!

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Are kids welcome?

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Unfortunately, we do ask that you leave your children at home.

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Absolutely! We have an extra question/note in the "Reception" section in the "Schedule" tab where you can make a request for any food allergies or anything similar. We will do our absolute best to make sure everything is accounted for!

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How long will the Reception last?

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The MAIN reception, which will be held at the Upper Pavilion/Gathering Center, will go until 8:00 PM. This gives us enough time to clear out and take all of the decorations down from the building to make everything clean and presentable for when we are finished. That being said, the party itself won't end that early! If you are interested in spending more time with us and everyone else, we plan on heading over to The Hideout Bar in Appleton for post-reception Karaoke! This will go on until bar close or until the last person leaves. Any leftover food/snacks will be brought here in case anyone is still hungry, and you are also welcome to drink with us if you wish to do so!