FAQs

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Is there a dress code?

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For the wedding, YES. The wedding kicks off with a Welcome Event before the Ceremony so come dressed to the Welcome Event in appropriate attire. We're rolling with a semi-formal theme: suits, gowns and cocktail dresses are all appropriate but if you have a tux in your closet, feel free to brush it off and put it on. A lil' glitz and glam is always fun! Men should *at minimum* wear khakis & a buttoned down shirt and ties are HIGHLY encouraged. No jeans, shorts or Crocs!

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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?

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All wedding guests are requested to arrive at Forest House Lodge first, during the Welcome Event starting at 3pm. We will have light refreshments for about an hour and then caravan to the SECRET ceremony location. PARKING IS LIMITED at the ceremony location so carpooling is recommended.

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What should I expect weather-wise?

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This is the Sierras! Because it is spring, it could snow or rain or hover in the low 80's. The only portion of the celebrations guaranteed to be outside is the ceremony - even if raining or snowing! If it rains, we will have umbrellas available. If it's chilly, we will also have blankets available. Depending on the weather, the cocktail hour will also be outside on the patio. Dinner/dancing/after party is all indoors. We'll be checking the weather just as eagerly as you the week leading up to the festivities. Bring your layers!

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Um, what SHOES should I wear?

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LADIES: please note the outdoor ceremony location has a cobblestone pathway leading from the *dirt* parking area to the cobblestoned path and seating area. Block heels & mules will all be fine. Experienced stiletto wearers only (although I'm pretty sure we're all too old for 5 inch heels these days #oldladyknees). ALSO: feel free to wear practical shoes for the ceremony (especially in inclement weather) and switch to your FABULOUS shoes for the reception directly afterward. I promise no one will judge if you wear fur lined boots at the ceremony then swap them for rhinestone heels for the reception! MEN: bruh, leave the flops and Crocs at home. Or change into them for the AFTER PARTY - not the wedding ceremony & reception. Gracias!

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Are kids welcome?

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Because of the small venue, if your children are invited, it will be noted on the invitation. We believe parents should be able to have fun without censoring themselves around small (or teenage) people. Please note if you are bringing a breastfed ONLY child :) If you have to drag your reluctant teenagers along (it's cool, I have a couple myself), they may join us for the ceremony only but NOT the reception. Pretty sure they think we're all old and boring anyway! (Good thing we know better)

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Do you have any hotel recommendations?

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Yes! Please see the Travel page. Lodging is available at the venue itself (please book directly with Elise who will reserve your room - but you pay upon check-in) and five cabins are reserved two blocks from the venue.

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Can I bring a date?

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Due to the small venue, your invitation will let you know if you may bring a guest.

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Is there transportation to and from the hotels to the ceremony?

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No. Please arrive at Forest House Lodge by 3pm. We will have pre-ceremony snacks and libations for about an hour before loading up and driving 1.4 miles to the ceremony location. Ride sharing is encouraged to the ceremony site. All other events will be held at Forest House Lodge.

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Is there parking for the ceremony or reception?

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Yes! Due to the limited parking available at the ceremony site, please meet at the Forest House Lodge at 3pm (regardless of whether or not you are staying there), and gather up a few friends to ride share to the ceremony location.

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Are there any other events that I should know about around the wedding?

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We're having a super chill, no-host get together at Moonraker Brewing the day before the wedding. Check out the Schedule and RSVP if you know you can make it (but you can also just drop in AND you can bring your kids to this event).