FAQs
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Are you having a ceremony?
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kind of, yes! it's a private event with a very small party at my aunt's house in new jersey.
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What are your pronouns?
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elaina is genderfluid and uses she/her/they/them. ame is nonbinary and uses they/them. please try your best to gender correctly! if you are new to this, we understand it takes a lot of daily practice to use they/them. if you make a mistake, simply correct yourself and continue the conversation! it is better to correct yourself and move on than to over-apologize and make a fuss in the middle of talking. this also applies when talking to others *about* the newly weds and not just to elaina and ame themselves. elaina does not personally mind being gendered female by close friends and family.
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Is there a wedding hotel block?
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no.
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What food will be served at the celebration?
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crudite platters, cheese boards, cake!
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Who is the bride and who is the groom?
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it doesn't matter! we're both wives now.
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If neither of you identify as a "Woman" why use the term "wife?"
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because we both like it! it's our personal choice to do so. trans & nb people choose terms that feel right for themselves personally.
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hi
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hi