FAQs
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How do I RSVP? When should I RSVP?
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To RSVP, click the RSVP tab and type the name(s) listed on your envelope. To help us with our planning, please RSVP as soon as possible. However, the deadline to RSVP is Saturday, August 1st. If you are unable to attend, we would appreciate you letting us know as soon as possible. Any RSVPs not received by August 1st will be marked as a 'no,' as we will be sending final headcounts to vendors shortly after this deadline. You will be missed!
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Can I bring a plus one?
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Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate the guests formally invited on your wedding invitation. We’ll be giving exact numbers to our caterer and making a floor plan based on RSVPs, so it is important that only confirmed guests attend. We really appreciate your understanding!
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What should I wear?
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Our wedding will be semi-formal, so we'd love to see you in your best dressed look! Think: floor-length or midi dresses, dressy jumpsuits, or a dress shirt with slacks. Jackets and ties are welcome but not required. Overall, aim for a dressy look, but no need to go all-out or wear full suits unless that’s your preference! The ceremony and reception will both take place indoors, and we plan to utilize outdoor space during the cocktail hour if weather allows. Please keep in mind the weather in Raleigh in October could be 80 degrees or 50 degrees. Keep an eye on the forecast as the wedding gets closer, or plan some layers! We recommend wearing comfortable shoes or bringing shoes to change into so that you can help us dance the night away.
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What should I avoid wearing?
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We kindly ask that guests avoid wearing any shades of white or ivory, along with casual attire like jeans, shorts, or t-shirts. As a rule of thumb, if you’re unsure about an outfit, it’s probably best to choose something else.
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Are kids welcome?
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We love all of the kids in our lives, but our wedding will be an adults-only celebration! We want a wedding where everyone can celebrate together without any extra responsibilities for the day. We hope you enjoy a fun night out!
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What time should I arrive at the ceremony?
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The ceremony will start at 3:30 PM Eastern Standard Time. Please arrive at least 15 minutes before the ceremony to get settled.
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Where should I stay?
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We have arranged 3 hotel block options for our guests! You can find more information on the “travel” page. The wedding will take place just outside of Raleigh, North Carolina. If you’re flying, the closest airport is RDU, and our venue is located in Garner, North Carolina, about 25 minutes away. We have hotel block options available in Garner, near the RDU airport, and downtown Raleigh. You’re welcome to stay wherever you’d like!
