FAQs
Question
Are kids invited?
Answer
To allow all wedding guests, including parents, a night of relaxation and uninhibited revelry, we have chosen to make our special day adults only. We kindly ask that no infants and no children under 21 attend and we thank you for your understanding.
Question
Can I bring a plus one?
Answer
Our goal is to keep our very special day as intimate as possible, we are choosing to celebrate with only our closest family and friends. We kindly request that only those whose names are specified on the invitation attend the event. Thank you for respecting our wishes.
Question
What is the RSVP deadline?
Answer
Please RSVP by September 1st.
Question
I have dietary restrictions. How should I communicate that with you?
Answer
Please list any dietary restrictions when you RSVP and select your meal.
Question
What time should I arrive to the wedding?
Answer
We request that you arrive at least 15 minutes early to get settled before the ceremony starts. Those who arrive after 6 PM will be unable to join us for the ceremony.
Question
Can I use Uber or Lyft to get to and from Blue Valley Vineyard?
Answer
Due to the venue’s location, rideshare services are often unavailable or extremely limited. We strongly recommend taking the shuttle we're providing or driving yourself.
Question
What should I wear?
Answer
The dress code for the wedding is cocktail attire. Cocktail attire typically includes a suit, cocktail dress, or formal jumpsuit. A quick Google search will show you many examples of how to dress for this occasion. We ask that you do not wear jeans or shorts and that you avoid wearing outfits where the primary color is white, cream, beige, etc.
Question
What color is the wedding party wearing?
Answer
Bridesmaids will be in dusty blue and groomsmen will be in navy.
Question
Is the wedding taking place indoors or outdoors? What is the ground surface like?
Answer
Weather permitting, the wedding ceremony will be held outside. Stiletto heels are not recommended as the ceremony area is grass. The reception will be held indoors.
Question
What is the weather typically like?
Answer
In the Fall, Delaplane, Virginia, is typically between 50 and 70 degrees. We recommend that you check the weather before you travel and bring layers.
Question
Will Kayla or Bob be changing their last names after the wedding?
Answer
We've both decided to keep our last names, so you can continue to call us Kayla Ebright and Bob Wiley after the wedding. Our cat, however, might choose to hyphenate and go by Piper Ebright-Wiley but we’ll let her decide!
Question
Can I take and post pictures of the wedding?
Answer
We are so excited that you would like to share pictures of our day! You are welcome to post pictures, we just ask that you do not take pictures during the ceremony so that our photographer can capture this special moment. We will share plenty of pictures once we receive them.
Question
I can’t attend, can I watch the wedding ceremony virtually?
Answer
All wedding festivities will be in person.
Question
What is there to do when we aren’t at wedding weekend events?
Answer
Take a look at the "Things to Do" page for some ideas!
Question
Who can I contact for additional questions or wedding weekend needs?
Answer
If you have any questions, please reach out to Kayla and Bob at ebright.wiley@gmail.com.