Ruby & Dustin
Wedding Party
Bridgitte Matthews
Matron of Honor
Bridgitte & I met in 9th grade and instantly became best friends. We were inseparable and our families became each others' family. At 18 we went to the same college together, and at 22 after graduation, she introduced me to Dustin (they had gone to grade school together). In 2018 I was the Maid of Honor at her wedding and now I finally get to have my payback! She has been so helpful throughout this entire process- even throwing us our engagement party- all while being pregnant, giving birth in the midst of a pandemic, and most recently, through a move to Argentina with her Navy husband, Zak, and their son, Killian. I truly do not know what I would do without her. She grounds me when I'm feeling crazy, listens when I'm excited, happy, or sad, & has been my absolute best friend for 18 years.
Marc Gillette
Officiant/Co-Best Man
My fellow Adirondacker turned New Englander, fish bum, business enthusiast, coworker, band member, secret keeper, hiker, skier, cash basher, gemologist, aspiring 46er and 4000 footer, hitchhiker, chowdah aficionado, adventurer, and brother. Glad I can add officiant to the list... Whether you need someone to marry you or bury you, let this guy take care of you.
Hannah Duell
Bridesmaid
Hannah is my younger sister and one of my very best friends. When she was born, I was eight years old and begged my parents to let her share a room with me. Little did I know, I'd never get my own room again until I went to college, but I wouldn't change that for anything. She has become my confidante, my shopping partner, fellow lactose intolerant ice cream lover, and one of my favorite people. I admire her bravery in life, her willingness to face challenges head on and to call out injustices, and her self-love. She reminds me every day how important it is to value one another and to love life, through both the good and the bad. Today, Hannah is practicing wildlife management and living her reptile-laced dreams in New England, where she is closer to her long-time beau, Miles.
James Brown
Co-Best Man
James and I met in 7th or 8th grade, didn't keep in touch throughout high school, and then recognized each other immediately during soccer tryouts freshman year of college. Since moving in with him at the end of sophomore year we've made countless memories. From captaining our soccer team and training together, adventuring, fly fishing, vacationing to Costa Rica, frequenting hockey games, and going on his famous impromptu road trip/visits, we have done it all. James motivates me to be a better man, all around-- personally, financially, physically-- and he's made me a better friend. He'll be on the dance floor for "Gettin Jiggy Wit It."
Alexis Sky
Bridesmaid
Alexis is my older sister and someone I know I can call to talk to about anything. She is one of the smartest and hardest-working people I have ever met and her love of books and love of book-giving has turned me into a bibliophile, myself. So, that is to say, essentially, we are both becoming my mother. Alexis and I have grown close over the years, and the birth of her daughter, Molly, really showed me the importance of family and how invaluable our time together is. She is such an inspiring mother, and I have learned so much from watching her relationship with her daughter develop over the years.
Colin Davidson
Groomsman
Colin and I met in second grade at St. Mary's St. Alphonsus. We grew up at each other's houses, every weekend. We did our science projects together, book reports, homework, pulled all nighters on N64, rode four wheelers, drank my first beer with him, liked the same girls, and even got kicked out of morning mass together. Even after going to different high schools we picked right back up where we left off freshman year of college. He's been a constant friend to me, his family has always treated me like one of their own, and he's always there to lend a hand or lend an ear.
Sarah Greco
Bridesmaid
Sarah is Dustin's younger sister and I am so excited for her to become another sister to me and to be the sister she never had. Sarah's drive, passion, and hardworking nature are enviable. At just 26, Sarah has worked towards owning her own business, dealt with heartbreak, and bounced back better and more driven than ever. She is currently working as a private chef and is the world's best bagel maker. I love that I know when I come to visit Dustin's parents' home, I can count on hanging out with Sarah and having the best time while Dustin goes out and does the outdoorsy things he loves to do. She's willing to talk girly stuff with me, but also call me out when I take it too far and she knows Dustin is secretly judging me. I'm so excited to join her family.
Stephen Mann
Groomsman
I don't think I'll ever pinpoint exactly when and where we met the first time. Regardless, he's been a consistent friend for the last 10+ years and he's responsible, in a big way, for who I am today. We spent an entire summer, fishing for days at a time. Most of my interest and hobbies are directly correlated with all the time spent together. Steve is the only true Pirate and fellow Pastafarian I know.
Annie Kraemer
Bridesmaid
Annie and I were college roommates for the first 2 years together at SUNY New Paltz and then housemates for our last 2. When we were roomed together, we hadn't yet met. Our friend Jena played matchmaker in setting us up as roomies, and we found that our personalities instantly meshed. Our pastimes together include belting Broadway musicals, cuddling, being each others' stylists, taking tequila shots and bringing drinks for the road, dancing, tasting wine, and working at dirty pizza places. Anne is one of those people who puts extreme amounts of effort into her relationships, and everyone in her life gets all of her, all of the time. I feel so lucky to be one of her best friends. I know that I am who I am because I knew Annie-- she has truly changed me "for good" (Wicked reference!).
Ryan Lefebvre
Groomsman
When I moved up to Portland, ME in 2014, I was that "new guy". I didn't know a soul and worst of all, I was from New York. After inserting myself into every lunch group, happy hour, and party for the first three months, Ryan held his beer up and made a toast to me for sticking it out. Over the past 6 years I've spent more nights, weekends, holidays, and birthdays with Ryan than anyone. The pleasures all mine to have him as a best friend.
Jena Costin
Bridesmaid
Jena and I met through facebook before even going to school together at SUNY New Paltz. We looked through each other's profiles and decided that we seemed like we could be good friends (aka we both thought the other looked "cool" and pretty). When it came time for orientation, I couldn't get into the same one to meet Jena in person, but she had my back and put my name down for a suite request with herself and two other girls (Annie & Rachel). We ended up living together all 4 years of college, and have remained very close throughout the years. I consider Jena one of my most fun friends-- I know if I want to have the best time ever, Jena is my girl. She may make you tickle her arms or play with her hair, but it's a small price to pay to be a witness to her levity and sunny approach to life.
Stephen Richardson
Groomsman
Surfer Steve and I met the first day of soccer tryouts at Saint Rose. At some point while inviting me grab subs for lunch at the soccer house, he referred to himself as “Daddy." That was the moment I realized we'd be friends. The memories we have from living together our senior year created a friendship for life. "Brad," his drunk alter ego will definitely be out to play, and he'll be recognizable at the wedding with a shot of Espolon Tequila or a Gin Martini in hand.
Kelly Thuraisingham
Bridesmaid
Kelly and I also attended college at SUNY New Paltz together, and lived together (basically) all four years. Kelly has always been the caretaker of the group, and I know that I can count on her for anything. She is one of the most honest, even oftentimes brutally, and yet the most genuine woman I have ever met. She is not afraid to curse (a lot), or to tell you how it is, and I honestly don't know anyone who is so terrifyingly strong. Her friendship is so invaluable to me. You'll find Kelly making sure that I don't drink too much throughout the night and then holding my hair back when I inevitably, have drank too much anyway.
Juan Galeano Kowalski
Groomsman
I can't pinpoint the first time meeting J-Money, but he's been a solid dude since day one. We've had countless weekends, flew to Costa Rica together and had near death experiences together multiple times, and he's always up for a good time. The only reason I'll forgive him for visiting Oregon, calling me a month later and saying he's staying for good and he's pregnant, is his beautiful daughter Zella. Juan has a great mix of care free and most caring guy I know. I'm so glad to have this guy as a groomsman.
Rachel Lebenger
Bridesmaid
Rachel also attended SUNY New Paltz with the Jena, Kelly, Annie, and myself, and lived with us for 3 out of the 4 years, as she spent a semester abroad. She is a world-traveler and fashionista, an expert drunk dancer, a food connoisseur, and she is always on the go. Rachel is one of those people who is friends with everyone and who makes friends wherever she goes because of her free and easy persona and her willingness to do anything and try anything. She is grounded and passionate in her beliefs and will always extend favors to anyone who asks. I am so envious of her wanderlust, and wish to see half the world that Rachel has seen in her life. Rachel will be doing the waka waka Shakira dance/the airplane on the dance floor to pretty much every song.
Jeff Lemelson
Groomsman
Jeff, a cheesehead, a lover of pickles, a lover of late night guitar jams, and a brawler on the pond hockey rink. He was an enemy and rival during high school sports but quickly became a good friend and a great teammate during ACC soccer. We've had countless late nights together at his first apartment at 95 Bay and at the Davidson Family Farm. I have too many stories to tell about Jeff for one sitting. He's been a close part of life for 10+ years, is always good for a laugh and a good time.
Lindsay Brown
Bridesmaid
Lindsay is Dustin's Best Man, James', wife and has become one of my best friends. Since moving back from New Hampshire, Dustin and I have spent the majority of our free time hanging out with James, Lindsay, their two pups, and their newest edition, baby Jameson. From St. Patrick's Day celebrations, to fires, breweries, ciderhouses, restaurants, pizza nights, and UFC fights, we've shared so many memories. We have grown so close in the matter of a year, and her friendship has made moving back to New York such a wonderful experience. I know that we would not be nearly as happy as we are without James and Lindsay (and Cooper, Stark, and Jameson) in our lives.
Jeff Greco
Father of the Groom
If my father wasn't terrified of the spotlight and was adamant about NOT giving a speech at the wedding, he'd be one the most important groomsman. My father is one of my best friends. From helping with his construction business, forcing me to play tee-ball, and countless trips up and down the bunny hill learning to ski, he's taught me about work ethic and to never give up. We've grown even closer over the last 8 years and have bonded over fly fishing, scenery, and adventure. I am who I am because of this man.
Natalie Pozzouli
Bridesmaid
Natalie and I met when we started working together as bartenders at Downtown City Tavern. We became friends quickly and easily, as I was completely drawn to her humor, wit, sass, and beauty. I have watched and celebrated Natalie's achievements in life, from getting married, to having babies, buying a home, and obtaining multiple nursing degrees. I am so happy that she now gets to join me on my own journey! Natalie lives in upstate NY with her husband, Tom, her two children, and her two Yorkie pups.
Laura Greco
Mother of the Groom
Laura and I met November 15th, 1990. When momma's not gardening she's making me chocolate pies or rummaging through her cabinets to send me home with food. This woman has taught me more about generosity and patience than anyone. She has a sympathetic ear and has been there for every decision I've made.
Patrick Duell
Father of the Bride
Patrick is my dad and one of my most favorite people in the world! He owns his own business, Adirondack Stained Glassworks, in Gloversville, NY and his creativity and vision have been a major factor in the pulling together of our wedding. His artistic eye and generosity are unmatched, and I have been so lucky in growing up with a dad who I consider one of my best friends.
Damien Duell
Usher
Damien is my younger brother and the middle child of my family. He currently lives and works in NYC and went to school to study anthropology. Damien is outspoken and steadfast in his beliefs, and his passion is contagious. He is always willing to help and will do you any favor you ask. It's admirable how caring for others he truly is.
Nancy Duell
Mother of the Bride
Nancy is my mother and is probably the most generous and selfless person you will ever meet. Growing up, my mom sacrificed it all for her children, and had no qualms about doing so. When I was in 10th grade, I had the opportunity to go to Japan the following year, so my mother actually got another job to help send me there. I am so lucky to have a mom like her, and even more grateful that I have such an incredible role model for motherhood.
Noah Duell
Usher
Noah is my youngest brother. He currently lives and works in Washington, D.C. Noah is an intelligent and driven young man, who we can always count on to talk to (and also argue) about world events-- he pretty much has knowledge on every single thing you could possibly think of. As he's grown up, he has turned into such a generous and kind young man. I'm so proud of the hardworking and caring person he has become.
Killian Matthews
Ring Bearer
Killian is Bridgitte and Zak Matthew's son who was born in April of 2020. The Matthews lived in DC when he was born, and have since moved to Argentina, so we don't get to see him a whole lot, but as my best friends' son, we couldn't imagine our day without him!
Jameson Brown
Ring Bearer
Jameson is James and Lindsay Brown's son. He was born in January of 2020 and has been such a great addition to the friend group! Plus, hanging with a baby has been great practice for us (haha). We are so excited to see him all dressed up and walking (hopefully!) down the aisle.
Molly Sky
Flower Girl
Molly is my five year old niece and one of my most favorite people that exists! She is funny, wild, and SO smart- oftentimes too smart for her own good. She has shown me how much a person can really love someone else, all while they are driving them crazy.