We've always dreamed of being married in the redwoods.

Let's be honest. Weddings are wonderful, but they can also be stressful. Our wedding is on a weekday and that might be very disruptive. We're getting married in Sonoma County, which isn't cheap to travel to. Even without those, not everyone likes weddings, or crowds, or redwoods. (If you don't like redwoods, don't tell us.) If this wedding isn't a good fit for your life right now, we hope you to enthusiastically decline and feel great about it. Attending our wedding is not the most important way to support our marriage. You can also just do part of the wedding. You'll see we have a Wedding and an After Party. We encourage you to take a minute, think about what you would enjoy participating in, and RSVP to either event, both events, or neither event. Do not stress about attending our wedding. We hope you'll see our invitation as an acknowledgement that we love you. And then we hope you enthusiastically decline if you would like to, and we'll find another time and place to celebrate together.