FAQs

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When should I RSVP by?

Answer

September 1, 2022

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What should I do if I can't make it?

Answer

You will be dearly missed! If you cannot make it to the wedding, please let us know as soon as possible and RSVP "will not attend" by September 1, 2022 so we can plan accordingly, thank you!

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Can I bring another guest not indicated on my invitation?

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We have addressed the invitations directly to the people we would love to come. If you received a plus one, their name will appear under yours when you RSVP. Please ensure that you are RSVPing for yourself & your guest. Due to limited space, we are only able to accommodate those guests formally invited on your invitation.

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Any COVID Restrictions?

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The venue will follow any state regulations regarding COVID procedures. Otherwise, be smart and do what you're comfortable with. If you're feeling ill, please stay home. We will understand.

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Is there a dress code? Are there any colors I should avoid wearing?

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We would love to see our friends and family get dressed up with us! We are requesting a cocktail dress code, but keep in mind it is an indoor/outdoor event in early fall. All we ask is to please refrain from colors typically reserved for the bride (white, cream, ivory, blush, etc) or burgundy.

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What do you mean by "cocktail reception"?

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Essentially a neverending cocktail hour! We won't have a designated time to sit down and eat dinner, but will have passed food all night instead! There'll be a variety of food, so we promise you won't go home hungry.

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Is there parking nearby?

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There is lots of public parking nearby! You can visit this website for information regarding rates and locations: https://www.cityofasburypark.com/366/Parking-for-Visitors

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I have a food allergy, can I make a special request?

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Of course! Please reach out to us, and we can make sure the venue prepares something to meet your needs.

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Can I take pictures/videos and post them on social media?

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Please do! Make sure you put "#PerilloSaysIDuke" in your caption so we can see them after the wedding! All we ask is to avoid using your phone during the ceremony. Our photographer, Jane, is great at her job and we want to give her every photo opportunity she can get.