Both our ceremony and reception will be held at Rocky Hill in White Salmon, Washington. This will be an indoor and outdoor celebration, so please plan accordingly for both settings. October in the Columbia River Gorge is one of the most beautiful times of year, though the weather can be a bit unpredictable. As emergency managers, we have built contingency plans to adapt to weather conditions and ensure everyone is comfortable and well taken care of.
We are so excited to celebrate this special day surrounded by our closest family and friends. As we are keeping our wedding intimate, we are only able to accommodate those guests who are formally listed on the invitation. If a plus-one has been reserved for you, it will be clearly indicated on your invitation. Thank you so much for your understanding!
While we love your little ones, we have decided to have our wedding be an adult-only occasion. We hope this advance notice means you are still able to share our big day!
We kindly ask that our ceremony be an unplugged experience. Please turn off and put away your phones and cameras so everyone can be fully present with us in the moment. Our outstanding professional photographer will capture everything - we promise to share the photos with you after! Once the ceremony concludes, feel free to take as many photos as you would like during the reception.
Formal attire. We are going for an elevated and elegant look for the event. Women are encouraged to wear long dresses or dressy cocktail attire. Men should wear a suit and tie. The Gorge can be windy with cooler evenings, so layers are recommended. Portions of the venue include grass and gravel, so we suggest choosing footwear accordingly.
Yes - there will be an open bar for you to enjoy throughout the evening! Beer, wine, and signature cocktails will be featured. Dinner will feature an authentic Italian-inspired menu with thoughtful Jewish nods woven throughout, blending classic flavors with meaningful touches that reflect us as a couple.
There are no room blocks, however, the Gorge offers a wide range of great accommodations so we encourage guests to choose what best fits their preferences. If you are looking for a place to stay, please see our suggestions in the Travel & Lodging tab.
Your presence at our wedding is truly the greatest gift, and we are so grateful to celebrate with you! For those who have asked or feel inclined, we have set up a simple registry in the form of a house fund. Contributions will go toward a down payment on our first home as we begin this next chapter together!
The address to the venue is 24 Bz Glenwood Highway, White Salmon, WA. Once you see the Rocky Hill sign, follow the long road all the way to the top into the area that says "Guest Parking." From there, follow one of pathways to the venue - either the stairs or continue up the gravel walkway. If ADA parking is needed, there are two parking spots at the reception hall if you continue up the road past the parking signs.
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Our ceremony will include several meaningful Jewish customs, explained briefly below. There is no pressure to know what is happening in advance, and there is never a “wrong” way to be a guest. Chuppah - The ceremony will take place under a chuppah, a wedding canopy that symbolizes the home we are building together. In keeping with Jewish tradition, Jessica was given a cypress tree at birth, which has now been transformed into our chuppah as we enter this next chapter of life. Ketubah - The ketubah is a Jewish marriage document that represents commitment and partnership. It is signed before the ceremony. Standing and Sitting - Guests remain seated during the ceremony unless otherwise noted. At times, guests may be invited to stand. If standing is uncomfortable for you, please feel free to remain seated. Breaking the Glass - At the end of the ceremony, the groom will step on a glass - this is a traditional moment symbolizing both joy and remembrance. This is your cue to cheer, clap, and shout “Mazel Tov!”
The reception will include joyful traditions like the hora, where guests lift the couple on chairs and dance together in a circle. Everyone is welcome to join in or cheer from the sidelines!
Not at all. You are welcome to participate in any way that feels comfortable to you, or simply observe. There is no expectation to follow along or know what to do. Being present is more than enough.