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October 30, 2021
Northampton, PA
#DiffenderFerever

Erin & Mathew

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Is there parking at the venue?

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Yes, there's plenty of parking at the venue!

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When are RSVPs due?

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Please respond by September 18! You may either use our online RSVP tool, or for those not technologically savvy, you may text or call Erin or Mat - (610) 737-2152 or (610) 295-3772, respectively.

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Where are you registered?

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We have a small registry on Zola, which you can find on our "Registry" tab here! Since we already have a home together, we have most of what we need - we just added some nice upgrades. In lieu of gifts, we have also created a Honeymoon Fund. We will be planning a trip to Grenada next year, and would love to experience as much as we can while there! Your gift would help us go on excursions via land or water, allow us a nice, relaxing day at the spa, or treat us to a lovely dinner on the beach!

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Do you have a wedding hashtag?

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Yes, it's #DiffenderFerever - please use it on your photos so we can look back on our day!

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Are children allowed at your ceremony or reception?

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Due to seating restrictions, we are limiting children to our ring bearers and flower girls for the ceremony and cocktail hour only. As much as we love littles, we want this to be a night for you to relax and enjoy yourselves!

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Will there be food?

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Absolutely! We are having a plated dinner which will be served immediately following cocktail hour, speeches, and first dances. If you have any dietary restrictions, please let us know! We will be serving a vegetarian dish as one of three entree choices. After dinner, we will have cake and cupcakes, and then a late night snack!

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Will there be alcohol?

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Again, absolutely! We will have an array of wine as well as a variety of beer. We will also have two signature drinks and champagne for toasting. For those who do not drink, we will have soda, iced tea, and lemonade. And water, of course! Barn Swallow Farm absolutely forbids outside liquor on their premises, including flasks! No shots of liquor will be served.

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Is it inside or outside?

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Our ceremony will be outside, our cocktail hour is under the wagon shed, and the reception will be inside. This is subject to change based on the weather forecast. The ceremony is held streamside, and benches will be on the grass, so please keep that in mind when choosing your shoes!

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What should I wear?

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Cocktail attire or semi-formal is preferred. Please no jeans or t-shirts!

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Can I bring a guest?

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If your invitation states "and guest," absolutely! Just let us know their name on your RSVP.

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Can we take photos or videos?

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Our ceremony will be unplugged, so please refrain from photography or videography. We'd hate for our photographer to miss special moments due to cell phones being in the way! As for our cocktail hour and reception, snap away! We want to document our special night so we can remember it forever. Please tag us in your photos!

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