Ben: I was first introduced to Diem via Instagram, by one of her best friends, Rachel. After seeing a few photos, I thought to myself, 'I have to get me some of that.' It was a few weeks later and I got to meet my goddess in person at one of my regularly attended Irish pubs (Dillon’s). I was with a large group of people and was unsure how to approach her, but as soon as Rachel was not around, I walked up to Diem and asked her where Rachel went. It is all I could think of to stir up a conversation and she instantly turned around and ‘ran’ away, making me think she had no interest whatsoever. As you all see now, I may have lost battle, but I won the war. Diem: So after "running away" from Ben that first night at Dillon's, I continued to avoid him every time Rachel invited him and his friends out because I was nervous and never knew what to say or do. Fast forward a couple months and I went to a rave, Beyond Wonderland. I had no idea Ben was going to be there at all; he went with his own friends. I was dancing in the crowd (of 1000's mind you) with my friends and I remember looking over my shoulder feeling like someone was staring at me. Out of the corner of my eye I saw this guy and I thought "that guy looks like Ben." And it was him! I went up to him and called Rachel over. Ben started telling us about how he came with his friends, but then he got lost and that he had been just wandering around. So of course, we invited him to join our group. Somehow, Ben and I paired up (I'll be honest, I don't know what came over me, but I suddenly became very confident and took his hand and lead him through the crowd) and we eventually got split up from our group. So it was just us the rest of the night. That was the first time I remember being completely myself in front of him and we just had such a great time! I'd say this was the first time I felt that "spark." And after that, I just found myself always wanting to see him, getting excited when I'd see a text or snap from him.