While there is no such thing as a 'standard' Jewish wedding order, we have decided to go with this order. Rabbi Groomsmen (Brothers) Groom Bridesmaids (Sisters) Bride, escorted by her mother
The symbolism is vast, but ultimately the chuppah represents a couples first home that they will build together. It is open on all four sides to represent the open hospitality the couple will give in their home to their family and friends.
There are many reasons for this tradition, one that we like is that this circling symbolizes the creation of the newly joined family circle and forms a "wall" of protection around the couple.
Jewish tradition says that the wedding band should be simple. The groom places a ring on the index finger on the brides right hand, according to tradition this finger has the closest bloodline to the heart.
The ceremony concludes with the groom breaking a glass under his foot. Breaking the glass can remind a marrying couple that life contains moments of sorrow as well as of joy. After the breaking of the glass, please shout "Mazel Tov!"
The marriage contract specifies the couples commitment to each other. It transforms the wedding vows into a personalized work of art that Devorah and Bradford have hung in their home.