Flight
There are two options. Fly directly into Wilmington and take an uber, taxi, or rent a car to Wrightsville Beach. Fly into Raleigh (more than likely a cheaper flight option) and then rent a car and drive approximately 140 miles to Wrightsville Beach.
Hotel
This is where the ceremony and the reception will be. Currently, there are 15 blocked off rooms (more can be added), the resort is charging a rate off $309 plus taxes and fees for persons connected with the wedding.
Hotel
This hotel is not on the beach and approximately 10-15 minutes from the resort. This may be a cheaper option.
Travel Note
There are a number of hotels in the Wrightsville Beach/Wilmington areas that may be more economical than the two listed here.