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We're looking forward to celebrating with you! Remember to check our website frequently as we will often update it!
We're looking forward to celebrating with you! Remember to check our website frequently as we will often update it!

Darby & Ernie

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If you have any other questions, please reach out to Jacqueline Bolyard at 740-517-0592 or Darby Bolyard at 740-621-0153 If you message us, please let us know who you are!
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HOW DO I RSVP? WHEN DO I RSVP BY?

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To RSVP, click the RSVP tab and type the name(s) listed on your envelope. Kindly RSVP before Saturday, September 1st, 2024. If you cannot attend, we would appreciate you letting us know as soon as possible. Any RSVPs received after this date will be marked as a "no" as we will be sending final headcounts to vendors shortly after this deadline - you will be missed!

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CAN I BRING A PLUS ONE?

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Due to limited venue capacity, we are unable to accommodate plus ones unless it is specifically indicated on your envelope. For example, your envelope would list "(your name) & Guest". For families, it will list "(your name ) & Family" or "The (your last name) Family". When you go to RSVP, you will be able to see the exact number of people you can RSVP for.

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ARE KIDS WELCOME?

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Although we love your children, we regretfully cannot accommodate everyone's children at our wedding due to restricted numbers and space. This pertains to children of all ages, including infants, toddlers, kids, and teens. Only children of immediate family and those with special circumstances are invited. Please refer to the 'RSVP" tab to see if we are able to accommodate your children. If we are unable to invite your children, we hope that you will see this as an opportunity to let your hair down and party with us!

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IS THERE A DRESS CODE?

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Our dress code is casual! We want our family and friends to be themselves and comfortable with what they wear on our day. However, we kindly ask that you don't wear shorts, sweatpants, or white attire of any kind.

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WILL THE CEREMONY AND RECEPTION BE INDOORS OR OUTDOORS?

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Both the ceremony and the reception will be held indoors. That said, you will be outside some and the doors to the barn will be open the entire day!

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HOW DOES SEATING WORK?

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The ceremony will be open seating so sit wherever you please. For the reception, we will be carefully arranging tables so our guests are sat with those they know (or their plus one or partner).

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WHAT DO I DO IF I'M LATE FOR THE CEREMONY?

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The ceremony will begin promptly at 4:30pm, we recommend guests arrive between 4:00 - 4:15 so there is time to mingle and find a seat. If you happen to be late, there will be an usher letting you know if we are still allowing guests in or if you will need to wait till the ceremony is over. You will still be welcome at the reception so hang tight, and we will see you there! Thank you for understanding!

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CAN I TAKE PICTURES DURING THE CEREMONY?

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No! Our ceremony will be an unplugged ceremony. We ask that all phones are silenced and put away so you can be in the moment with us. We have a fantastic photographer who will take plenty of photos for us to share with you after our big day! We also politely request that you don't post any pictures on social media until we post our first picture as the bride and groom!

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WILL THERE BE ALCOHOL AT THE WEDDING?

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The bride and groom will have a limited bar from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. Once all alcohol is gone, there will not be any more available.

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WILL I BE ABLE TO SMOKE?

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22 Acres Farm prohibits the use of any type of smoking device, including cigarettes, cigars, and vapes (ELFBAR, JUUL, etc.), anywhere on their property (that includes the outdoors and parking area). The venue will fine and remove anyone caught smoking from the premises.

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IS THE VENUE ACCESSIBLE?

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Yes! The venue has ramps to accommodate wheelchairs, walkers and any other type of mobility aid!

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IS THERE PARKING AT THE VENUE?

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Yes, there is complimentary guest parking. Signs will be posted at the entrance of the venue!

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ARE YOU REGISTERED? WHERE?

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The future Mr. and Mrs. Eltringham are registered at Walmart, Target, and Amazon! You can click on the registry tab above, and it will direct you to all their registries. If registries aren't your style, the newlyweds would also appreciate cash and/or gift cards to get them started.

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DISCLAIMER

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When the reception comes around as the night continues, you will hear and see things that may not be appropriate for younger kids. All of our music will be uncensored starting at 8:30. If you are uncomfortable with this, we would suggest you leave before this time. If you are completely ok with what's stated above, we can't wait to party with you!

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