Wedding Party
Scott McElhaney
Best Man
My Brother Scott Man, me and this guy from the start seemed to always but heads. From friendly competition in the yard growing up, to the high school wrestling team, we seemed to always be pushing each other's limits and buttons. As we've both gotten older, we've matured to join along side each other in our careers. Scott is a paramedic in San Diego and has been in the first responder field for nearly 10 years throughout Southern California. It makes me super proud to see the man that he has become and the challenges he has overcome along the way. Scott has a passion to help people and be a very stand up guy doing it. He takes pride and integrity in his career and personal life. We have had the pleasure of being roommates and doing life together for the past few years. We've supported each other in some ups and down. In that time really strengthening our relationship as we further our adulthood. He's really helped me to live a bit more and not take things so seriously all the time. In a good way! My brother has had a good balance of work and play from my perspective and I can't wait to travel with him some day. I love my brother Scott, and am so grateful to call him my Best Man on this special day, I truly would not be where I am today without this man and can't wait to see all the more to come!
Lauren McCollum
Matron of Honor
(Lolo) My built-in best friend since the womb — my twin sister 🤍 We’ve truly done every stage of life side-by-side. From whispering and giggling in our bunk beds long past bedtime, to fighting over clothes like they weren’t from the same closet, to becoming roommates as young women navigating life together — she has been my constant through it all. I’ve had the front row seat of watching her become a young lady, meet the love of her life, become a wife, and now the sweetest and most playful mama to my adorable nephew, Maverick. Watching her step into each new season has been one of the greatest privileges of my life. Lolo has always been the person who knows me best — the one who shows up, tells me the truth when I need it, laughs with me until I cry, and loves me through every version of myself. I genuinely cannot imagine doing life without her. She was pretty much my “practice marriage.” Brett really owes her a thank-you card because she taught me how to share a bank account, split groceries, make lunches for each other, not hog the bathroom, and most importantly… to never use words like “always” and “never” during disagreements. Some lessons are learned the hard way. LOL.
Lloyd Ballantyne
Groomsman
Loyd and I also met in high school. I believe it was divine timing from the start. Loyd has a younger brother, Liam, who currently serves as a pilot in the U.S. Coast Guard. We are the same age, and Loyd is a year older, but I seemed to get closer to Loyd throughout high school. We had a few classes together, and then junior year we ended up having parking spots right next to each other. During that time, we would hang out after school, as they were fellow Clair monsters :) (Clairemont, San Diego roots). We would spend our weekends off-roading or having huge bonfires on Fiesta Island. We’ve got lots of fond memories pulling people out of the mud from the center of the island or seeing how fast we could make it around the circuit with our mini trucks. Loyd is one of those guys that, no matter how long it’s been, we could call each other and be there for each other in a moment. Loyd is for sure a ride-or-die homie from the start. He has stood by my side through a lot of trials that this life has thrown our way. I’m looking forward to being there for him like he has been there for me in the coming years. Loyd is a real one and works with his hands for a living also, so we always have something to talk good, healthy smack on when we get together. I’m so stoked to have Loyd in my corner in this season, and especially as a groomsman, as I navigate this new era of life very soon.
Megan McCollum
Bridesmaid
(Megzie) Meg and I go way back — all the way to 4th grade Sunday School, where our friendship was built on Jesus, creek adventures, frog chasing, and causing just enough mischief to keep life interesting. Somewhere between giggling in her polkadot bedroom and treating every ordinary afternoon like a wilderness expedition, God was quietly writing a lifelong friendship story neither of us saw coming. As we grew up, our friendship naturally deepened into a sisterhood. Meg taught me the beauty and depth of female friendship — how to love people well, celebrate the little things, and make others feel deeply seen. One thing about Meg, is that she adds a certain "flair" everywhere you go- she knows how to make something simple feel so special, fun, warm, and fuzzy. She can turn a mundane day into an unforgettable moment. What a blessing it was when God intertwined our lives even more. Meg became my roommate during our "Pink Barbie Dream House by the Bay Era". Then even funnier- her brother married my twin sister, making our sisterhood official- a real life family bond. Living with Meg during our single years was one of the sweetest seasons of my life. We filled those days with sunshine, late-night talks, spontaneous adventures, and dreams about the husbands we prayed God had waiting for us someday. Her joy, love for Jesus, adventure-seeking spirit, and ability to make life feel magical made that season treasured. P.s. She is single!!
Jack Millard
Groomsman
Jack and I met a couple years back at Grace Church in Oceanside. From the start, just through some basic conversations, I could tell how real and authentic of a person he is. As we began to get to know each other a bit more and serve alongside each other, I really started to look up to the man he is and the things he's overcome throughout his life. Watching his faith and perseverance has inspired me to keep pushing forward and dive deeper in my own walk with Jesus Christ. Serving alongside this strong man of God has really opened my eyes. I've been able to lean on him, and I'd like to think he's been able to lean on me. It's been so fun to grow in our walks together, challenge each other, and serve the Kingdom side by side. He is such a real one. He leads with vulnerability no matter what, and that's one of the things I respect most about him. He is an incredibly strong man of God. He's also been voted best barber in San Diego - by all of his friends ;) The barber chair is not only a place where you get your hair cut, but a place where he speaks into your life. Somehow people show up for a haircut and leave encouraged, challenged, and better than when they walked in. It's been awesome getting to know Jack over the last few years, and I'm excited to continue growing in friendship, faith, and service together.
Shannon Martin
Bridesmaid
She's the kind of sweet and sassy girl-next-door that you can't resist! I met Shannon in Lifegroup at North Coast church when I found myself agreeing with everything that came out of her mouth during group discussion. I thought to myself "okay... I LIKE this girl!". She is so wise, non judgmental, cheerful and FUN! She is like Summer in a bottle if that were possible. She's my "go-to" beach friend. There was an instant draw to become closer friends. Shannon was that friend that made me feel sane while I was single. I thought, if SHE is still single than maybe God really does have someone for me, He just isn't here yet. When I read Proverbs 31, I can’t help but think of Shannon. She carries herself with so much joy, laughter, warmth, humility, and extreme grace. Her laughter is contagious, her kindness is genuine, and she has a way of making everyone around her feel welcome and valued. One of the things I admire most about Shannon is how deeply she cares for people. She doesn’t just notice those around her, she truly sees them. Every person she comes into contact with matters to her, and she has an incredible gift for making others feel loved, included, and important. I am blessed to have her in my life <3 P.s. She is single!!
Gabe Willis
Groomsman
Ol Gabe Man ...I met Gabe about 3 years ago when he come though Grace Church. I remember our first project together. Building a classroom for our kids wing at church. He’s got a style and definitely marching to his own beat attitude. As we got to know each other more he jumped heavy into chasing after the heart of the Father and into Ministry. We were attending the same Men’s group for awhile and then Gabe was asked to Lead the young adults ministry at Grace. During that 1-2 year stretch there was so much growth in his life and walk with Christ. He was truly a new person and it was so motivating to be by his side serving the Lord Together. Fast forward to present day. He is still leading the charge and making a huge kingdom impact Gabe owns a skate board company and brand name Strght. We also hit it off because of being fellow entrepreneurs and all that entails. I’m so grateful to have Gabe in my corner on this special day. Gabe’s another real one and would drop anything to be there for the ones he cares about, Love you brother!!
Kayla Williams
Bridesmaid
(Kay La La) She was the energetic, playful, goofy girl I met in YWAM (Youth With a Mission) 2022 that I had secretly plotted to become friends with. There was something about her that instantly clicked. I guess God thought so too- because she was one of the rare ones who happened to live in California too! In YWAM, we shared a room with 9 other women as we dove into learning more about Jesus together and traveled the world as missionaries together. She is effortless to be around, her friendship is a breeze. We found ourselves cackling all night in each other's bunk beds til 2am while the rest were asleep. There's an infectious joy about her that draws you in. She knows how to make my cheeks hurt from laughing and she's also there for me in the hard times, never judging and full of grace. Kayla is my safe space. I can share absolutely anything with her and I know she will love with where I am at and encourage me to run after God always. She is the definition of a true friend. She has become an extension of the Voyles family. P.s. She is single!!
Jackson McCullough
Groomsman
My best braddah, Jackson! We both met in high school on the freshman football team. His dad was an assistant coach, and Jackson was new to San Diego, coming from the great island of Kauai. Freshman football days were a blast with lots of laughs. Jackson had straight natural-born talent, and I was just trying not to get kicked off the team and show up to practice. From the start, I really liked Jackson’s realistic attitude. He would definitely call it how he saw it. Throughout high school, we grew closer in our relationship and in the same friend group. After high school, we had many adventures, including living together in Leucadia and taking trips out of town to twist throttles in the dunes. We were all about seeking the next adrenaline hit, whether it was in the water or out in the desert grabbing gears. Nowadays, I’m so grateful to call Jackson one of my best friends, as we have been through a lot of what life has thrown at us together. I would also call him a ride-or-die homie. Anytime something goes down, we have each other’s back, day or night. I’m so stoked to have him as a groomsman on this special day and excited for more adventures to come in the near future!!
Kate Aymin
Bridesmaid
And then there's Kate <3 I met Kate in Lifegroup at Northcoast church and we gradually became deeper friends. She's the perfect mix of girly-girl but also "down to rally for anything" type- ESPECIALLY if there's a adventurous story to write! I'll never forget getting stuck in a pouring rain storm with her with nothing but soaked tents and her rallying to stay and camp out. She keeps life interesting! I had the honor of being roomies with her and experiencing her love and genuine care for me... and also found out her secret love for Assassin's Creed. LOL What I love and admire about Kate is her inclusiveness to anyone she comes into contact with. She makes it a priority to look for those on the outside and bring them in as if they're family. Kate has a gift for bringing people together. She’s a true connector, someone who naturally builds community and creates spaces where people feel comfortable, loved, and cared for. I’ve watched her turn strangers into friends and friends into family more times than I can count. A fun fact I like to mention- if I hadn't met Kate- I wouldn't have heard of AmericaFest- and therefore I wouldn't have seen Brett in AmericaFest 2024 Arizona. You see, that just so happened to be the trip where I spotted Brett ;) P.s. She is single!!
Philip Szymanski
Groomsman
I met Philip a few years back while attending Grace Church. We both got to know each other through our church men’s group and then began to serve alongside each other as the regulators on the safety team. Many mornings, we would stand guard at the front of Grace Church, monitoring the coffee intake and making sure people weren’t getting too rowdy. Philip and I hit it off because he’s been an architect for a long while. I prayed for a friend and business associate like Philip for a long time. Philip and I work together on a daily basis. He’s an architect and owns his own firm, and we consistently team up on projects all over the map. It’s truly so fun to do business alongside another brother of faith. I had the amazing opportunity to be the best man in Philip’s wedding last year to his lovely bride, Emily. We’ve shared many fun memories, from working at an orphanage in Mexico building bathrooms for the niños to pouring into the youth at a Turning Point USA event. We’ve only known each other a few short years, but I think we are just scratching the surface of our friendship, business ventures, and brotherhood in Christ. I’m honored to call him a groomsman on this special day. Love you, bro!
Kaity James
Bridesmaid
She's me and Lolo's elementary school bestie always plotting how to get us to stay over at her house longer and how to keep our mom's chatting while we played outside on the trampolines as long as possible! We'd stay up late at night in her bedroom with clouds painted on the ceiling whispering about who we imagined would be married first. (Spoiler Alert: I am last lol). She taught me how to cartwheel, how to talk about liking a boy, and continues to be my friend who chases after Jesus. She's my Crossfit, health nut twinzie <3 I love her to death! What I love about Kaity is her loyalty to friendships and relationships in her life. She prioritizes people because I know they matter to her. I love how she prioritizes her marriage and beautiful little baby girl, Jessie. Family and Jesus come first, it's evident. Kaity is the home maker type of wifey that I greatly admire and aspire to become as well. I know I can go to Kaity for anything and that she will always be there for me when I am going through a hard time. She's been there since day 1, and I know she will be there til the end. P.s. She is married to the Hulk