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November 26, 2022
Menifee, CA
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Dana & Caleb

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The Wedding Website of Caleb James Bray and Dana Marie Esser
If you have any other questions other than what we have listed here, please just use common sense, we trust you.
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Are kids allowed to attend?

Answer

As much as we loveeee the children, unfortunately no. Our venue has a strict guest count and the layout is not kid friendly. This event will be 18+ only. Many of our friends, probably half of the wedding attendees, have young children, so we are straying away from "exceptions" altogether to keep it fair. We love everyone's kids so how could we choose! We are also being mindful due to the fact that our ceremony will be recorded and sent to Dana's family in Germany, so any interruptions, i.e crying babies or parents having to get up and leave during the ceremony because we all know children get fussy, will be more interruptions than we'd like especially for our family trying to watch from far away. Parents, thank you for understanding. With that said, enjoy a date night! Get on the dance floor! Hire a babysitter, enjoy a glass of wine or lemonade, whatever suits your fancy, and let's enjoy the party!

Question

Since it's an all outdoor wedding, will it be cold?

Answer

The best solution would be to come prepared. Bring a jacket for the evening, check the weather app, or just get sweaty on the dance floor and you won't be chilly. There are heaters throughout the reception area and the location of our venue is known to be quite nice in November. There is also a tent set up for emergency rain, although November is known as the dry month there. The weather temperature can range from mid 70's during the day to mid 50's in the evening.

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Can I bring a plus one?

Answer

Sad to say, no. If your significant other is not on our RSVP list then they are not able to attend our wedding. Our wedding has a strict guest count and the venue is limited on space. Any uninvited guest will be counted for and we get fined in the middle of our wedding! They have been very serious about our wedding going over the allotted guest count. So leave your gf, bf, gma, puppie, sister's neighbor, all at home, thank you!

Question

Since this is all outdoors, can I bring recreational substances?

Answer

There is an absolutely no smoking, no drug (leave the MJ at home please) policy at this venue. This is due to it being an all outdoor venue surrounded by tress and dry shrubbery, so it can be prone to fires. If any of our guests are found smoking anything on the property, our event gets immediately shut down and there is no refund for us. Don't be that person that ruins our wedding......

Question

Will there be alcohol?

Answer

We will have a champagne toast on us during the reception followed by a cash bar with beer, wine, & spirits. On that note, we do have a security guard that will kindly remove anyone causing a disturbance. We're all about having fun but also safety! Please drink responsibly and consider getting a hotel nearby and/or a DD!

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